{"id":7380,"date":"2015-09-17T13:54:11","date_gmt":"2015-09-17T19:54:11","guid":{"rendered":"https:\/\/memberpress.com\/?p=7380"},"modified":"2021-03-15T11:38:47","modified_gmt":"2021-03-15T17:38:47","slug":"6-best-ways-to-get-what-you-want","status":"publish","type":"post","link":"https:\/\/memberpress.com\/de\/blog\/6-best-ways-to-get-what-you-want\/","title":{"rendered":"Die 6 besten Wege, um zu bekommen, was Sie wollen"},"content":{"rendered":"<p>Das klingt vielleicht nach einem extrem egoistischen Thema f\u00fcr einen Blogbeitrag. In gewisser Weise ist es das auch, nur nicht so, wie Sie vielleicht denken. Manchmal wird \"bekommen, was man will\" als eine negative, egozentrische Idee angesehen. Idealerweise sollte ein gro\u00dfartiger Mensch gro\u00dfz\u00fcgig und freundlich sein und sich nicht zu sehr um sich selbst oder um das, was er will, k\u00fcmmern.<\/p><div id=\"ez-toc-container\" class=\"ez-toc-v2_0_82_2 ez-toc-wrap-center counter-hierarchy ez-toc-counter ez-toc-custom ez-toc-container-direction\">\n<label for=\"ez-toc-cssicon-toggle-item-69e5a1e525235\" class=\"ez-toc-cssicon-toggle-label\"><p class=\"ez-toc-title\" style=\"cursor:inherit\">WAS IST INNEN<\/p>\n<span class=\"ez-toc-cssicon\"><span class=\"eztoc-hide\" style=\"display:none;\">Umschalten auf<\/span><span class=\"ez-toc-icon-toggle-span\"><svg style=\"fill: #000000;color:#000000\" xmlns=\"http:\/\/www.w3.org\/2000\/svg\" class=\"list-377408\" width=\"20px\" height=\"20px\" viewbox=\"0 0 24 24\" fill=\"none\"><path d=\"M6 6H4v2h2V6zm14 0H8v2h12V6zM4 11h2v2H4v-2zm16 0H8v2h12v-2zM4 16h2v2H4v-2zm16 0H8v2h12v-2z\" fill=\"currentColor\"><\/path><\/svg><svg style=\"fill: #000000;color:#000000\" class=\"arrow-unsorted-368013\" xmlns=\"http:\/\/www.w3.org\/2000\/svg\" width=\"10px\" height=\"10px\" viewbox=\"0 0 24 24\" version=\"1.2\" baseprofile=\"tiny\"><path d=\"M18.2 9.3l-6.2-6.3-6.2 6.3c-.2.2-.3.4-.3.7s.1.5.3.7c.2.2.4.3.7.3h11c.3 0 .5-.1.7-.3.2-.2.3-.5.3-.7s-.1-.5-.3-.7zM5.8 14.7l6.2 6.3 6.2-6.3c.2-.2.3-.5.3-.7s-.1-.5-.3-.7c-.2-.2-.4-.3-.7-.3h-11c-.3 0-.5.1-.7.3-.2.2-.3.5-.3.7s.1.5.3.7z\"\/><\/svg><\/span><\/span><\/label><input type=\"checkbox\"  id=\"ez-toc-cssicon-toggle-item-69e5a1e525235\"  \/><nav><ul class='ez-toc-list ez-toc-list-level-1' ><li class='ez-toc-page-1 ez-toc-heading-level-2'><a class=\"ez-toc-link ez-toc-heading-1\" href=\"https:\/\/memberpress.com\/de\/blog\/6-best-ways-to-get-what-you-want\/#1_Ask\" >1. Fragen Sie<\/a><\/li><li class='ez-toc-page-1 ez-toc-heading-level-2'><a class=\"ez-toc-link ez-toc-heading-2\" href=\"https:\/\/memberpress.com\/de\/blog\/6-best-ways-to-get-what-you-want\/#2_Be_prepared_to_handle_it\" >2. Bereit sein, damit umzugehen<\/a><\/li><li class='ez-toc-page-1 ez-toc-heading-level-2'><a class=\"ez-toc-link ez-toc-heading-3\" href=\"https:\/\/memberpress.com\/de\/blog\/6-best-ways-to-get-what-you-want\/#3_Be_persistent\" >3. Hartn\u00e4ckig sein<\/a><\/li><li class='ez-toc-page-1 ez-toc-heading-level-2'><a class=\"ez-toc-link ez-toc-heading-4\" href=\"https:\/\/memberpress.com\/de\/blog\/6-best-ways-to-get-what-you-want\/#4_Set_goals_track_scoreboard\" >4. Ziele setzen, verfolgen, Anzeigetafel<\/a><\/li><li class='ez-toc-page-1 ez-toc-heading-level-2'><a class=\"ez-toc-link ez-toc-heading-5\" href=\"https:\/\/memberpress.com\/de\/blog\/6-best-ways-to-get-what-you-want\/#5_Study_people_who_have_what_you_want\" >5. Studieren Sie Menschen, die das haben, was Sie wollen<\/a><\/li><li class='ez-toc-page-1 ez-toc-heading-level-2'><a class=\"ez-toc-link ez-toc-heading-6\" href=\"https:\/\/memberpress.com\/de\/blog\/6-best-ways-to-get-what-you-want\/#6_Help_others_get_what_they_want\" >6. Anderen helfen, das zu bekommen, was sie wollen<\/a><\/li><li class='ez-toc-page-1 ez-toc-heading-level-2'><a class=\"ez-toc-link ez-toc-heading-7\" href=\"https:\/\/memberpress.com\/de\/blog\/6-best-ways-to-get-what-you-want\/#Summary\" >Zusammenfassung<\/a><\/li><\/ul><\/nav><\/div>\n\n\n\n\n<p>Ich denke jedoch, dass ich dies aus einer ganz anderen Perspektive betrachte. Ein Beispiel f\u00fcr \"bekommen, was man will\" k\u00f6nnte sein, einer bed\u00fcrftigen Familie eine Mahlzeit zu geben oder jemandem beizubringen, wie er eine Aufgabe selbst erledigen kann, die zuvor andere f\u00fcr ihn erledigt haben. <\/p>\n\n\n\n<p>Das muss keine narzisstische \u00dcbung sein. In einer sehr realen Art und Weise ist \"bekommen, was man will\" das, worum es uns den ganzen Tag und jeden Tag geht. Selbst wenn wir damit besch\u00e4ftigt sind, anderen zu helfen und Dinge f\u00fcr uns selbst zu vernachl\u00e4ssigen, ist es das, was wir wollen und wof\u00fcr wir uns entschieden haben.<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p>Dabei lasse ich bequemerweise die Tatsache au\u00dfer Acht, dass viele Menschen gezwungen sind, jeden Tag Dinge zu tun, die sie nicht tun wollen. Das ist ein sehr realer Umstand f\u00fcr viele in dieser Welt. Ich denke, dass die gro\u00dfe Mehrheit von uns in der heutigen Zeit in der Lage ist, ihre Tage in relativer Freiheit zu verbringen und zu w\u00e4hlen, was wir tun wollen. <\/p>\n\n\n\n<p>Wir alle wollen etwas. Unsere W\u00fcnsche sind so unterschiedlich wie wir als Menschen. Und ich glaube, dass die folgenden Tipps Ihnen dabei helfen werden, Ihre W\u00fcnsche zu verwirklichen, ganz gleich, was sie sind.<\/p>\n\n\n\n<h2 class=\"wp-block-heading\"><span class=\"ez-toc-section\" id=\"1_Ask\"><\/span>1. Fragen Sie<span class=\"ez-toc-section-end\"><\/span><\/h2>\n\n\n\n<p>Dies ist auch als erste Regel der Verhandlung bekannt. Wenn Sie nicht darum bitten, werden Sie es nicht bekommen. Es ist fast unm\u00f6glich, dass etwas aus dem Nichts auftaucht, nur weil es Ihnen in den Sinn kommt. Sie werden erstaunt sein, wie viel Sie erreichen k\u00f6nnen, wenn Sie einfach fragen. Viele von uns trauen sich nicht zu fragen, weil sie Angst haben, abgelehnt zu werden, oder weil sie denken, dass es sich nicht geh\u00f6rt. Wenn Sie diese Angst \u00fcberwinden k\u00f6nnen, ist der Himmel die Grenze.<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p>Dieses Prinzip wurde mir von einem Mann beigebracht, f\u00fcr den ich gearbeitet habe, dem Autor Richard Paul Evans. Er schrieb ein Buch mit dem Titel, <a href=\"http:\/\/www.richardpaulevans.com\/portfolio-item\/the-5-lessons-a-millionaire-taught-me\/\" target=\"_blank\" rel=\"noopener\">Die 5 Lektionen, die mich ein Million\u00e4r \u00fcber Leben und Reichtum gelehrt hat.<\/a>\u00a0 Der besagte Million\u00e4r lehrte mich unter anderem, bei jeder Transaktion zu fragen: \"Ist das alles, was Sie f\u00fcr mich tun k\u00f6nnen?\". <\/p>\n\n\n\n<p>Es ist erstaunlich, was Menschen f\u00fcr Sie tun, wenn Sie diese einfache Frage stellen. Sie muss nicht konfrontativ sein, als ob Sie ein hartes Gesch\u00e4ft machen wollten. Es ist nur eine einfache Frage. Wenn sie \"nein\" sagen, dann l\u00e4cheln Sie, bedanken sich und gehen weiter.<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p>Das soll nicht hei\u00dfen, dass Sie alles bekommen, was Sie wollen, nur weil Sie darum bitten. Es ist eher ein Hilfsmittel, das Sie nutzen k\u00f6nnen, um auf dem Weg zur Erreichung eines Ziels weiterzukommen. Wenn Sie abgewiesen werden, gehen Sie schnell zur n\u00e4chsten Methode \u00fcber, um das zu erreichen, was Sie wollen. Lassen Sie sich von der Ablehnung nicht aufhalten. Sie k\u00f6nnen den Gedanken, dass Sie wenigstens zuerst gefragt haben, einfach zu den Akten legen.<\/p>\n\n\n\n<h2 class=\"wp-block-heading\"><span class=\"ez-toc-section\" id=\"2_Be_prepared_to_handle_it\"><\/span>2. Bereit sein, damit umzugehen<span class=\"ez-toc-section-end\"><\/span><\/h2>\n\n\n\n<p>Daran denken die meisten Menschen nicht und es ist f\u00fcr viele ein \u00fcberraschend neues Konzept. Haben Sie schon einmal die Erfahrung gemacht, dass Sie dachten, Sie wollten etwas haben, und sich dann an die Arbeit gemacht haben, um es zu bekommen, nur um festzustellen, dass es vielleicht gar nicht so toll war, es zu wollen? <\/p>\n\n\n\n<p>Manche Menschen streben nach Ruhm, nur um sp\u00e4ter festzustellen, dass sie ihre Privatsph\u00e4re und ihre F\u00e4higkeit, sich frei zu bewegen, verloren haben. Oder sie streben eine gro\u00dfe Bef\u00f6rderung an, um dann festzustellen, dass die Anforderungen des neuen Jobs nicht wirklich mit ihren Vorstellungen von ihrer Karriere \u00fcbereinstimmen. Eines der ersten Dinge, \u00fcber die wir nachdenken sollten, wenn wir uns entscheiden, etwas zu wollen, ist die Frage, ob wir bereit sind, mit dem umzugehen, was mit dieser Sache einhergeht.<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p>Ein h\u00e4ufiges materielles Gut, das gew\u00fcnscht und dann bereut wird, sind Boote. Viele Menschen lieben die \"Idee\", ein Boot zu besitzen. Sie verlieben sich in die Vorstellung, mit Familie und Freunden auf dem Wasser zu sein, sch\u00f6ne Orte zu sehen und die Welt auf eine neue Art zu genie\u00dfen. <\/p>\n\n\n\n<p>Dann kommen die Kosten und die Probleme mit der Lagerung und Wartung, und das ist keine so gute Idee mehr. Mit ein wenig Recherche und Studium der Kosten f\u00fcr den Besitz und die Wartung eines Bootes vor dem Kauf w\u00fcsste man, worauf man sich einl\u00e4sst. Vielleicht w\u00fcrden sie erkennen, dass es zu viel f\u00fcr sie w\u00e4re und dass ein gelegentlicher Bootsverleih ihre Bed\u00fcrfnisse besser befriedigen w\u00fcrde. <\/p>\n\n\n\n<p>Vielleicht w\u00fcrden die \"Kosten\" einen nicht abschrecken, aber jetzt ist man vorbereitet, wenn sie auftauchen. Die Quintessenz ist, dass ein wenig Nachdenken und Vorbereitung, bevor Sie Ihren \"Wunsch\" tats\u00e4chlich bekommen, einen gro\u00dfen Beitrag dazu leisten, dass Sie gl\u00fccklich sind, wenn Sie ihn bekommen.<\/p>\n\n\n\n<h2 class=\"wp-block-heading\"><span class=\"ez-toc-section\" id=\"3_Be_persistent\"><\/span>3. Hartn\u00e4ckig sein<span class=\"ez-toc-section-end\"><\/span><\/h2>\n\n\n\n<p>Eines der h\u00e4ufigsten Dinge in diesem Leben ist, dass man sich f\u00fcr etwas entscheidet, es anstrebt und dann beim ersten Anzeichen von Schwierigkeiten die Idee aufgibt. Das wird dann mit \"na ja, vielleicht wollte ich das ja gar nicht wirklich\" erkl\u00e4rt. Das kann tats\u00e4chlich wahr sein, aber ich vermute, dass es meistens nicht die ganze Geschichte ist. <\/p>\n\n\n\n<p>Was f\u00fcr ein gro\u00dfartiges Gef\u00fchl ist es, wenn wir hart f\u00fcr etwas arbeiten und viel Schmerz ertragen m\u00fcssen, um es zu erreichen, und wenn wir es dann endlich geschafft haben, f\u00fchlen wir uns, als h\u00e4tten wir die Welt erobert! Wenn man wei\u00df, dass man mit Herausforderungen und Schwierigkeiten konfrontiert sein wird, bevor man anf\u00e4ngt, auf etwas hinzuarbeiten, wird man sie leichter \u00fcberwinden k\u00f6nnen.<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p>Ein wichtiger Teil der Beharrlichkeit besteht darin, zu wissen, wann man tats\u00e4chlich aufgeben sollte. Manche Menschen geben einfach nie auf. Das wird oft als Tugend und St\u00e4rke angesehen. In Wirklichkeit ist es eine Schw\u00e4che. Die wahre St\u00e4rke besteht darin, die F\u00e4higkeit zur Unterscheidung zu entwickeln, um zu wissen, wann es an der Zeit ist, die Beharrlichkeit abzuschalten und weiterzumachen. <\/p>\n\n\n\n<p>\"Ich habe nie aufgegeben und war hartn\u00e4ckig, bis ich bekam, was ich wollte, also war es richtig und gut. Das ist die allgemein akzeptierte \u00dcberzeugung, aber sie ist oft falsch. Nicht zu bekommen, was man will, wird als Versagen angesehen. Ein kluger Mensch sieht dieses \"Versagen\" als eine Lektion an. Eine Lektion darin, besser zu lernen, was man wirklich will, und den Kurs zu \u00e4ndern, um es zu erreichen. Kurz gesagt, geben Sie nicht auf, aber wissen Sie, wann Sie aufgeben m\u00fcssen. Das klingt widerspr\u00fcchlich, ist es aber nicht.<\/p>\n\n\n\n<h2 class=\"wp-block-heading\"><span class=\"ez-toc-section\" id=\"4_Set_goals_track_scoreboard\"><\/span>4. Ziele setzen, verfolgen, Anzeigetafel<span class=\"ez-toc-section-end\"><\/span><\/h2>\n\n\n\n<p>Ein nicht aufgeschriebenes Ziel ist nur ein Wunsch. Das haben wir alle schon mindestens tausendmal geh\u00f6rt. Es mag nicht 100% wahr sein, aber es hat eine Menge Gewicht. Etwas aufzuschreiben ist eine sehr physische Art, sich zu etwas zu verpflichten. Psychologisch gesehen legt es einen Schalter in Ihrem Kopf um und macht es realer. Jetzt haben Sie eine gewisse Rechenschaftspflicht. Ihnen selbst gegen\u00fcber. Sie sollten Ihre Ziele auch mit anderen teilen, z. B. mit einer nahestehenden Person oder einem vertrauensw\u00fcrdigen Kollegen, um die Verantwortlichkeit auf die n\u00e4chste Stufe zu heben.<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p>Ein Teil der Zielsetzung, der oft vergessen wird, ist die Verfolgung und Bewertung. Die Verfolgung unserer Fortschritte auf dem Weg zu etwas, das wir erreichen wollen, ist entscheidend f\u00fcr den Erfolg. <a href=\"https:\/\/www.franklincovey.com\/the-4-disciplines\/discipline-3-scoreboard.html\" target=\"_blank\" rel=\"noopener\">Anzeiger<\/a> ist ein Verfahren, bei dem Sie alle Kennzahlen, die mit Ihrem Ziel in Verbindung stehen, an einer gut sichtbaren Stelle anzeigen. <\/p>\n\n\n\n<p>Daher auch die Verwendung des Begriffs \u2018Anzeigetafel'. Sie erinnert Sie fast st\u00e4ndig daran, wie weit Sie von Ihren Zielen entfernt sind. Wenn Sie beispielsweise auf einen Hochschulabschluss hinarbeiten, k\u00f6nnen Sie die f\u00fcr den Abschluss noch erforderlichen Kreditpunkte verfolgen. Bringen Sie die Zahl an einer Stelle an, wo Sie sie oft sehen, damit Sie daran erinnert werden, wie weit Sie noch gehen m\u00fcssen, und motiviert werden, Ihre Bem\u00fchungen fortzusetzen. <\/p>\n\n\n\n<p>Einige Dinge sind schwieriger zu verfolgen als andere, aber viele Dinge, die Sie nicht haben eine Art von Nummer mit ihnen verbunden. Sparen Sie zum Beispiel Geld f\u00fcr ein Boot. Wenn Sie diese Zahl irgendwo sichtbar anbringen, verzichten Sie vielleicht auf ein \"Essen\" und essen an einem Abend Thunfischsandwiches, damit Sie Ihr Ziel f\u00fcr das Boot schneller erreichen. Aus den Augen aus dem Sinn gilt hier definitiv.<\/p>\n\n\n\n<h2 class=\"wp-block-heading\"><span class=\"ez-toc-section\" id=\"5_Study_people_who_have_what_you_want\"><\/span>5. Studieren Sie Menschen, die das haben, was Sie wollen<span class=\"ez-toc-section-end\"><\/span><\/h2>\n\n\n\n<p>Egal, was Sie wollen, es gibt wahrscheinlich jemanden, der es hat oder vor Ihnen erreicht hat. Studieren Sie diese Menschen. Versuchen Sie herauszufinden, wie sie das erreicht haben, was Sie zu erreichen versuchen. Was mussten sie tun, um erfolgreich zu sein und ihr Ziel zu erreichen? Finden Sie heraus, mit welchen Herausforderungen und Schwierigkeiten sie zu k\u00e4mpfen hatten. <\/p>\n\n\n\n<p>Wenn Sie k\u00f6nnen, sprechen Sie mit ihnen und fragen Sie sie, was sie anders machen w\u00fcrden. Dieser einfache Schritt kann Ihnen helfen, nicht viel Zeit, M\u00fche und sogar Geld zu verschwenden, um das zu bekommen, was Sie wollen. Dieser Schritt enth\u00e4lt ein Element von Schritt 1. Fragen Sie. Aus einfachen Gespr\u00e4chen mit Menschen k\u00f6nnen Sie eine Menge lernen. Viele Menschen werden Ihr Interesse bewundern und Ihnen vielleicht sogar anbieten, Ihnen bei der Verwirklichung Ihrer Ziele zu helfen.<\/p>\n\n\n\n<h2 class=\"wp-block-heading\"><span class=\"ez-toc-section\" id=\"6_Help_others_get_what_they_want\"><\/span>6. Anderen helfen, das zu bekommen, was sie wollen<span class=\"ez-toc-section-end\"><\/span><\/h2>\n\n\n\n<p>Ich glaube an Karma, daran, dass man erntet, was man s\u00e4t, an die Goldene Regel oder wie auch immer man es nennen m\u00f6chte. Wenn man anderen dient und hilft, wird man vom Universum gesegnet. Was Sie tun und wie Sie andere behandeln, wird wirklich zu Ihnen zur\u00fcckkommen. Es ist unm\u00f6glich, das in Zahlen zu fassen, und Sie werden vielleicht nie genau wissen, wann das Universum Sie belohnt. <\/p>\n\n\n\n<p>Wenn Sie Zeit damit verbringen, anderen zu helfen, ihre Ziele zu erreichen, hat das zwei Auswirkungen. Erstens bauen Sie ein gutes Karma auf, das Ihnen bei Ihren Bem\u00fchungen helfen kann, das zu erreichen, was Sie wollen. Und zweitens werden Sie dadurch lernen. Sie werden lernen, was andere motiviert und welche verschiedenen Wege es gibt, Dinge in dieser Welt zu erreichen.<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p>Es gibt jedoch einen Haken. Anderen zu dienen mit dem alleinigen Ziel, sich selbst zu helfen, wird nach hinten losgehen. Sie m\u00fcssen ehrlich und mit echtem Herzen versuchen, anderen zu helfen, ihre Herausforderungen zu \u00fcberwinden und das zu erreichen, wonach sie streben. Es gibt einen geheimen Nebeneffekt, den ich jetzt mit Ihnen teilen werde. Der Dienst an anderen hat den Effekt, dass sich die Dinge, die Sie wollen, ver\u00e4ndern. Vielleicht stellen Sie am Ende fest, dass ein Boot doch keine so gute Idee ist.<\/p>\n\n\n\n<h2 class=\"wp-block-heading\"><span class=\"ez-toc-section\" id=\"Summary\"><\/span>Zusammenfassung<span class=\"ez-toc-section-end\"><\/span><\/h2>\n\n\n\n<p>Der Hauptpunkt, den ich mit diesem Thema zu vermitteln versuche, ist, dass es ein kleines Wunder ist, wenn Sie etwas erreichen, wenn Sie es auf eine planlose, unorganisierte Weise angehen. Hier gilt das alte Sprichwort: \"Wenn du nicht wei\u00dft, wohin du willst, f\u00fchrt dich jeder Weg dorthin\". <\/p>\n\n\n\n<p>Wenn Sie sich ein Ziel f\u00fcr einen Wunsch setzen, um diesen Wunsch bitten, auf diesen Wunsch hinarbeiten, sich darauf vorbereiten, diesen Wunsch zu erhalten, andere studieren, die bereits das haben, was Sie wollen, und anderen dabei helfen, das zu bekommen, was sie wollen, haben Sie den gr\u00f6\u00dften Teil des Weges zur\u00fcckgelegt, um zu bekommen, was Sie wollen. Aber manchmal sollen die Dinge einfach nicht sein. <\/p>\n\n\n\n<p>Nach einer konzertierten Aktion, bei der Sie diese Schritte befolgen, k\u00f6nnen Sie sich sicher sein, dass dies wahr ist, denn Sie werden alles getan haben, was Sie k\u00f6nnen, um es zu erreichen. 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I think the vast majority of us in this day and age are able to live out our days with relative freedom to do and choose what we want to do. "}],"data":[],"style":{"textAlign":"left","color":"","dropCap":false,"parent_style":{}}},{"type":"core\/paragraph","render":"<p>We all want something. Our wants are as diverse as we are as a people. And I believe the following tips will help you in realizing your wants no matter what they are.<\/p>","content":[{"type":"text","data":"We all want something. Our wants are as diverse as we are as a people. And I believe the following tips will help you in realizing your wants no matter what they are."}],"data":[],"style":{"textAlign":"left","color":"","dropCap":false,"parent_style":{}}},{"type":"core\/heading","render":"<h2 class=\"wp-block-heading\">1. Ask<\/h2>","content":"1. Fragen Sie","data":[],"style":{"align":"left","parent_style":{},"header":"h2","fontSize":"27px"}},{"type":"core\/paragraph","render":"<p>This is also known as the first rule of negotiation. If you don\u2019t ask for it, you won\u2019t get it. It is almost impossible for something to appear out of thin air just because the thought crossed your mind. You will be amazed at how much you can accomplish if you just ask. So many of us are afraid to ask for fear of being rejected or out of some cultural idea that it isn\u2019t appropriate to do so. If you can get over that fear then the sky is the limit.<\/p>","content":[{"type":"text","data":"This is also known as the first rule of negotiation. If you don\u2019t ask for it, you won\u2019t get it. It is almost impossible for something to appear out of thin air just because the thought crossed your mind. You will be amazed at how much you can accomplish if you just ask. So many of us are afraid to ask for fear of being rejected or out of some cultural idea that it isn\u2019t appropriate to do so. If you can get over that fear then the sky is the limit."}],"data":[],"style":{"textAlign":"left","color":"","dropCap":false,"parent_style":{}}},{"type":"core\/paragraph","render":"<p>I was taught this principle by a man I used to work for, Author Richard Paul Evans. He wrote a book called, <a href=\"http:\/\/www.richardpaulevans.com\/portfolio-item\/the-5-lessons-a-millionaire-taught-me\/\" target=\"_blank\" rel=\"noopener\">The 5 Lessons a Millionaire Taught Me About Life and Wealth.<\/a>\u00a0 One of the things said millionaire taught me was to ask, \u201cIs that the best you can do for me?\u201d when participating in just about any transaction. <\/p>","content":[{"type":"text","data":"I was taught this principle by a man I used to work for, Author Richard Paul Evans. He wrote a book called, <a href=\"http:\/\/www.richardpaulevans.com\/portfolio-item\/the-5-lessons-a-millionaire-taught-me\/\" target=\"_blank\" rel=\"noopener\">The 5 Lessons a Millionaire Taught Me About Life and Wealth.<\/a>\u00a0 One of the things said millionaire taught me was to ask, \u201cIs that the best you can do for me?\u201d when participating in just about any transaction. "}],"data":[],"style":{"textAlign":"left","color":"","dropCap":false,"parent_style":{}}},{"type":"core\/paragraph","render":"<p>It is amazing what people will do for you when you ask this simple question. It doesn\u2019t have to be confrontational like you are driving a hard bargain. It\u2019s just a simple question. If they say \u201cno,\u201d then you smile, say thanks, and move on.<\/p>","content":[{"type":"text","data":"It is amazing what people will do for you when you ask this simple question. It doesn\u2019t have to be confrontational like you are driving a hard bargain. It\u2019s just a simple question. If they say \u201cno,\u201d then you smile, say thanks, and move on."}],"data":[],"style":{"textAlign":"left","color":"","dropCap":false,"parent_style":{}}},{"type":"core\/paragraph","render":"<p>This isn't to say that you will get everything you want just by asking for it. It is more of a tool you can use to get further down the path to achieving something. If rejected, quickly move on to the next method of going after what you want. Don\u2019t let the rejection stop you. You will be able to just file away the thought that at least you asked first.<\/p>","content":[{"type":"text","data":"This isn't to say that you will get everything you want just by asking for it. It is more of a tool you can use to get further down the path to achieving something. If rejected, quickly move on to the next method of going after what you want. Don\u2019t let the rejection stop you. You will be able to just file away the thought that at least you asked first."}],"data":[],"style":{"textAlign":"left","color":"","dropCap":false,"parent_style":{}}},{"type":"core\/heading","render":"<h2 class=\"wp-block-heading\">2. Be prepared to handle it<\/h2>","content":"2. Bereit sein, damit umzugehen","data":[],"style":{"align":"left","parent_style":{},"header":"h2","fontSize":"27px"}},{"type":"core\/paragraph","render":"<p>This is one that most people don\u2019t think of and is a surprisingly new concept to many. Have you ever had an experience where you thought you wanted something and then went to work getting it only to realize maybe it wasn\u2019t such a great thing to want in the first place? <\/p>","content":[{"type":"text","data":"This is one that most people don\u2019t think of and is a surprisingly new concept to many. Have you ever had an experience where you thought you wanted something and then went to work getting it only to realize maybe it wasn\u2019t such a great thing to want in the first place? "}],"data":[],"style":{"textAlign":"left","color":"","dropCap":false,"parent_style":{}}},{"type":"core\/paragraph","render":"<p>Some people go after fame only to realize later that they have lost their privacy and their ability to move about freely. Or, seeking a big promotion only to find out that the requirements of the new job don\u2019t really jive with what they saw for their career. One of the first things we should think about when deciding we want something is to ask ourselves if we are ready to deal with whatever comes with that thing.<\/p>","content":[{"type":"text","data":"Some people go after fame only to realize later that they have lost their privacy and their ability to move about freely. Or, seeking a big promotion only to find out that the requirements of the new job don\u2019t really jive with what they saw for their career. One of the first things we should think about when deciding we want something is to ask ourselves if we are ready to deal with whatever comes with that thing."}],"data":[],"style":{"textAlign":"left","color":"","dropCap":false,"parent_style":{}}},{"type":"core\/paragraph","render":"<p>A common material thing wanted and then regretted are boats. Many people love the \u2018idea\u2019 of having a boat. They fall in love with the idea of being out on the water with family and friends and being able to see beautiful places and enjoy the world in a new way. <\/p>","content":[{"type":"text","data":"A common material thing wanted and then regretted are boats. Many people love the \u2018idea\u2019 of having a boat. They fall in love with the idea of being out on the water with family and friends and being able to see beautiful places and enjoy the world in a new way. "}],"data":[],"style":{"textAlign":"left","color":"","dropCap":false,"parent_style":{}}},{"type":"core\/paragraph","render":"<p>Then the costs and the problems of storage and maintenance hit and it\u2019s not such a great idea anymore. A little research and study into what it takes to own and maintain a boat before purchasing would prepare one to know what they are getting into. Maybe they would realize it would be too much for them and that an occasional boat rental would satisfy their wants better. <\/p>","content":[{"type":"text","data":"Then the costs and the problems of storage and maintenance hit and it\u2019s not such a great idea anymore. A little research and study into what it takes to own and maintain a boat before purchasing would prepare one to know what they are getting into. Maybe they would realize it would be too much for them and that an occasional boat rental would satisfy their wants better. "}],"data":[],"style":{"textAlign":"left","color":"","dropCap":false,"parent_style":{}}},{"type":"core\/paragraph","render":"<p>Maybe the \u2018costs\u2019 wouldn\u2019t scare one away but now you are prepared when they do come up. The bottom line is that a little thinking and preparation before you actually get your \u2018want\u2019 will go a long way towards your happiness after you get it.<\/p>","content":[{"type":"text","data":"Maybe the \u2018costs\u2019 wouldn\u2019t scare one away but now you are prepared when they do come up. The bottom line is that a little thinking and preparation before you actually get your \u2018want\u2019 will go a long way towards your happiness after you get it."}],"data":[],"style":{"textAlign":"left","color":"","dropCap":false,"parent_style":{}}},{"type":"core\/heading","render":"<h2 class=\"wp-block-heading\">3. Be persistent<\/h2>","content":"3. Hartn\u00e4ckig sein","data":[],"style":{"align":"left","parent_style":{},"header":"h2","fontSize":"27px"}},{"type":"core\/paragraph","render":"<p>One of the most common things in this life is deciding you want something, going after it, and then giving up on the idea at the first sign of difficulty. It gets explained away as \u201cwell, maybe I didn\u2019t really want that after all.\u201d That may actually be true but I suspect more often than not it\u2019s not the whole story. <\/p>","content":[{"type":"text","data":"One of the most common things in this life is deciding you want something, going after it, and then giving up on the idea at the first sign of difficulty. It gets explained away as \u201cwell, maybe I didn\u2019t really want that after all.\u201d That may actually be true but I suspect more often than not it\u2019s not the whole story. "}],"data":[],"style":{"textAlign":"left","color":"","dropCap":false,"parent_style":{}}},{"type":"core\/paragraph","render":"<p>How great a feeling it is when we work hard for something and go through a lot of pain to get it and then when we finally achieve it we feel like we\u2019ve conquered the world! Knowing before you start working toward something that you will be faced with challenges and difficulties will help you get through them easier.<\/p>","content":[{"type":"text","data":"How great a feeling it is when we work hard for something and go through a lot of pain to get it and then when we finally achieve it we feel like we\u2019ve conquered the world! Knowing before you start working toward something that you will be faced with challenges and difficulties will help you get through them easier."}],"data":[],"style":{"textAlign":"left","color":"","dropCap":false,"parent_style":{}}},{"type":"core\/paragraph","render":"<p>That being said, a key part of being persistent is knowing when to actually quit. Some people will just never give up. This is often looked at as a virtue and a strength. It is actually a weakness. The real strength is developing the skill of discernment to know when it\u2019s time to turn the persistence off and move on. <\/p>","content":[{"type":"text","data":"That being said, a key part of being persistent is knowing when to actually quit. Some people will just never give up. This is often looked at as a virtue and a strength. It is actually a weakness. The real strength is developing the skill of discernment to know when it\u2019s time to turn the persistence off and move on. "}],"data":[],"style":{"textAlign":"left","color":"","dropCap":false,"parent_style":{}}},{"type":"core\/paragraph","render":"<p>\u201cI never gave up and persisted till I got what I wanted, therefore, it was right and good.\u201d That is the generally accepted belief but it is oftentimes wrong. Not getting what you want is seen as a failure. A smart person sees that \u2018failure\u2019 as a lesson. A lesson in learning better what they really want and changing course to achieve it. In short, don\u2019t give up but know when to give up. Sounds contradictory but it isn\u2019t.<\/p>","content":[{"type":"text","data":"\u201cI never gave up and persisted till I got what I wanted, therefore, it was right and good.\u201d That is the generally accepted belief but it is oftentimes wrong. Not getting what you want is seen as a failure. A smart person sees that \u2018failure\u2019 as a lesson. A lesson in learning better what they really want and changing course to achieve it. In short, don\u2019t give up but know when to give up. Sounds contradictory but it isn\u2019t."}],"data":[],"style":{"textAlign":"left","color":"","dropCap":false,"parent_style":{}}},{"type":"core\/heading","render":"<h2 class=\"wp-block-heading\">4. Set goals, track, scoreboard<\/h2>","content":"4. Ziele setzen, verfolgen, Anzeigetafel","data":[],"style":{"align":"left","parent_style":{},"header":"h2","fontSize":"27px"}},{"type":"core\/paragraph","render":"<p>A goal not written down is just a wish. We have all heard that at least a thousand times. It may not be 100% true but it carries a lot of weight. Writing something down is a very physical way to commit to something. Psychologically it flips a switch in your head and makes it more real. Now you have some accountability. To yourself. You should also share your goals with others such as a close loved one or a trusted colleague and take that accountability to the next level.<\/p>","content":[{"type":"text","data":"A goal not written down is just a wish. We have all heard that at least a thousand times. It may not be 100% true but it carries a lot of weight. Writing something down is a very physical way to commit to something. Psychologically it flips a switch in your head and makes it more real. Now you have some accountability. To yourself. You should also share your goals with others such as a close loved one or a trusted colleague and take that accountability to the next level."}],"data":[],"style":{"textAlign":"left","color":"","dropCap":false,"parent_style":{}}},{"type":"core\/paragraph","render":"<p>A part of setting goals that often gets forgotten and left out is tracking and score boarding. Tracking our progress toward getting something we want is crucial for success. <a href=\"https:\/\/www.franklincovey.com\/the-4-disciplines\/discipline-3-scoreboard.html\" target=\"_blank\" rel=\"noopener\">Scoreboarding<\/a> is a practice where you take any metrics associated with your goal and display them somewhere easy to see. <\/p>","content":[{"type":"text","data":"A part of setting goals that often gets forgotten and left out is tracking and score boarding. Tracking our progress toward getting something we want is crucial for success. <a href=\"https:\/\/www.franklincovey.com\/the-4-disciplines\/discipline-3-scoreboard.html\" target=\"_blank\" rel=\"noopener\">Scoreboarding<\/a> is a practice where you take any metrics associated with your goal and display them somewhere easy to see. "}],"data":[],"style":{"textAlign":"left","color":"","dropCap":false,"parent_style":{}}},{"type":"core\/paragraph","render":"<p>Hence the use of the word 'scoreboard.' It is a near constant reminder of how you are doing against your goals. For example, if you were working towards a college degree you could track your remaining credit hours needed for graduation. Display the number where you will see it often and it will remind you how much further you have to go and will motivate you to keep up your efforts. <\/p>","content":[{"type":"text","data":"Hence the use of the word 'scoreboard.' It is a near constant reminder of how you are doing against your goals. For example, if you were working towards a college degree you could track your remaining credit hours needed for graduation. Display the number where you will see it often and it will remind you how much further you have to go and will motivate you to keep up your efforts. "}],"data":[],"style":{"textAlign":"left","color":"","dropCap":false,"parent_style":{}}},{"type":"core\/paragraph","render":"<p>Some things are harder to track than others but many things you won't have some kind of number associated with them. Saving money for a boat for example. Put that number somewhere visible and you may choose to skip an \u2018eat-out\u2019 and have tuna sandwiches one night so that you can reach your boat goal sooner. Out of sight out of mind definitely applies here.<\/p>","content":[{"type":"text","data":"Some things are harder to track than others but many things you won't have some kind of number associated with them. Saving money for a boat for example. Put that number somewhere visible and you may choose to skip an \u2018eat-out\u2019 and have tuna sandwiches one night so that you can reach your boat goal sooner. Out of sight out of mind definitely applies here."}],"data":[],"style":{"textAlign":"left","color":"","dropCap":false,"parent_style":{}}},{"type":"core\/heading","render":"<h2 class=\"wp-block-heading\">5. Study people who have what you want<\/h2>","content":"5. Studieren Sie Menschen, die das haben, was Sie wollen","data":[],"style":{"align":"left","parent_style":{},"header":"h2","fontSize":"27px"}},{"type":"core\/paragraph","render":"<p>No matter what it is you want there is likely someone else out there that has it or has achieved it before you. Study those people. Try to learn how they achieved what you are trying to achieve. What did they have to do to be successful in getting what they wanted? Find out the challenges and difficulties they faced. <\/p>","content":[{"type":"text","data":"No matter what it is you want there is likely someone else out there that has it or has achieved it before you. Study those people. Try to learn how they achieved what you are trying to achieve. What did they have to do to be successful in getting what they wanted? Find out the challenges and difficulties they faced. "}],"data":[],"style":{"textAlign":"left","color":"","dropCap":false,"parent_style":{}}},{"type":"core\/paragraph","render":"<p>If you can, talk to them and ask them what they would do differently. This simple step can help you avoid wasting a lot of time, effort, and even money in getting what you want. This step has an element of step 1. Ask. Simple conversations with people can teach you a lot. A lot of people will admire your interest and might even offer to help you to achieve your goals.<\/p>","content":[{"type":"text","data":"If you can, talk to them and ask them what they would do differently. This simple step can help you avoid wasting a lot of time, effort, and even money in getting what you want. This step has an element of step 1. Ask. Simple conversations with people can teach you a lot. A lot of people will admire your interest and might even offer to help you to achieve your goals."}],"data":[],"style":{"textAlign":"left","color":"","dropCap":false,"parent_style":{}}},{"type":"core\/heading","render":"<h2 class=\"wp-block-heading\">6. Help others get what they want<\/h2>","content":"6. Anderen helfen, das zu bekommen, was sie wollen","data":[],"style":{"align":"left","parent_style":{},"header":"h2","fontSize":"27px"}},{"type":"core\/paragraph","render":"<p>I believe in Karma, reaping what you sow, the Golden Rule or whatever you choose to call it. Serving and helping others will earn you blessings from the universe. What you do and how you treat others really will come back to you. It\u2019s impossible to quantify, and you may never know exactly when the universe pays up. <\/p>","content":[{"type":"text","data":"I believe in Karma, reaping what you sow, the Golden Rule or whatever you choose to call it. Serving and helping others will earn you blessings from the universe. What you do and how you treat others really will come back to you. It\u2019s impossible to quantify, and you may never know exactly when the universe pays up. "}],"data":[],"style":{"textAlign":"left","color":"","dropCap":false,"parent_style":{}}},{"type":"core\/paragraph","render":"<p>Spending time helping others to achieve what they want will have two effects. First, you will build up good Karma that can help you in your efforts to achieve what you want. And second, it will help you learn. You will learn what motivates others and what different ways there are to get things done in this world.<\/p>","content":[{"type":"text","data":"Spending time helping others to achieve what they want will have two effects. First, you will build up good Karma that can help you in your efforts to achieve what you want. And second, it will help you learn. You will learn what motivates others and what different ways there are to get things done in this world."}],"data":[],"style":{"textAlign":"left","color":"","dropCap":false,"parent_style":{}}},{"type":"core\/paragraph","render":"<p>There is a catch however. Serving others with the sole purpose of helping yourself will backfire. You must honestly and with a genuine heart seek to help others overcome their challenges and achieve what they are striving for. There is a secret side benefit I will share with you now. Service to others has an effect of changing the things you want. You might end up deciding that boat isn\u2019t such a great idea after all.<\/p>","content":[{"type":"text","data":"There is a catch however. Serving others with the sole purpose of helping yourself will backfire. You must honestly and with a genuine heart seek to help others overcome their challenges and achieve what they are striving for. There is a secret side benefit I will share with you now. Service to others has an effect of changing the things you want. You might end up deciding that boat isn\u2019t such a great idea after all."}],"data":[],"style":{"textAlign":"left","color":"","dropCap":false,"parent_style":{}}},{"type":"core\/heading","render":"<h2 class=\"wp-block-heading\">Summary<\/h2>","content":"Zusammenfassung","data":[],"style":{"align":"left","parent_style":{},"header":"h2","fontSize":"27px"}},{"type":"core\/paragraph","render":"<p>The main point I am trying to get across with this topic is that if you go at getting what you want in a haphazard, unorganized way then it will be a minor miracle if you actually accomplish anything. The old adage, \u201cIf you don\u2019t know where you are headed, every road will get you there\u201d applies here. <\/p>","content":[{"type":"text","data":"The main point I am trying to get across with this topic is that if you go at getting what you want in a haphazard, unorganized way then it will be a minor miracle if you actually accomplish anything. The old adage, \u201cIf you don\u2019t know where you are headed, every road will get you there\u201d applies here. "}],"data":[],"style":{"textAlign":"left","color":"","dropCap":false,"parent_style":{}}},{"type":"core\/paragraph","render":"<p>Setting a goal for a want, asking for that want, persisting towards the want, preparing yourself to receive that want, studying others who already have what you want, and helping others get what they want will get you most of the way to getting what you want. However, sometimes things just aren\u2019t meant to be. <\/p>","content":[{"type":"text","data":"Setting a goal for a want, asking for that want, persisting towards the want, preparing yourself to receive that want, studying others who already have what you want, and helping others get what they want will get you most of the way to getting what you want. However, sometimes things just aren\u2019t meant to be. "}],"data":[],"style":{"textAlign":"left","color":"","dropCap":false,"parent_style":{}}},{"type":"core\/paragraph","render":"<p>After a concerted effort following these steps you can assure yourself that is true because you will have done everything you can to make it happen. Good luck in your efforts to get what you want and I sincerely hope you \u2018want\u2019 and \u2018get\u2019 good things.<\/p>","content":[{"type":"text","data":"After a concerted effort following these steps you can assure yourself that is true because you will have done everything you can to make it happen. Good luck in your efforts to get what you want and I sincerely hope you \u2018want\u2019 and \u2018get\u2019 good things."}],"data":[],"style":{"textAlign":"left","color":"","dropCap":false,"parent_style":{}}},{"type":"core\/paragraph","render":"<p>Let me know what you think and share your own tips for getting what you want in the comments.<\/p>","content":[{"type":"text","data":"Let me know what you think and share your own tips for getting what you want in the comments."}],"data":[],"style":{"textAlign":"left","color":"","dropCap":false,"parent_style":{}}}],"app_access":{"can_access":true,"restrict_message":null},"_links":{"self":[{"href":"https:\/\/memberpress.com\/de\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/posts\/7380","targetHints":{"allow":["GET"]}}],"collection":[{"href":"https:\/\/memberpress.com\/de\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/posts"}],"about":[{"href":"https:\/\/memberpress.com\/de\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/types\/post"}],"author":[{"embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/memberpress.com\/de\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/users\/2474"}],"replies":[{"embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/memberpress.com\/de\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/comments?post=7380"}],"version-history":[{"count":0,"href":"https:\/\/memberpress.com\/de\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/posts\/7380\/revisions"}],"wp:featuredmedia":[{"embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/memberpress.com\/de\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/media\/15183"}],"wp:attachment":[{"href":"https:\/\/memberpress.com\/de\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/media?parent=7380"}],"wp:term":[{"taxonomy":"category","embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/memberpress.com\/de\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/categories?post=7380"},{"taxonomy":"post_tag","embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/memberpress.com\/de\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/tags?post=7380"}],"curies":[{"name":"wp","href":"https:\/\/api.w.org\/{rel}","templated":true}]}}