{"id":7380,"date":"2015-09-17T13:54:11","date_gmt":"2015-09-17T19:54:11","guid":{"rendered":"https:\/\/memberpress.com\/?p=7380"},"modified":"2021-03-15T11:38:47","modified_gmt":"2021-03-15T17:38:47","slug":"6-best-ways-to-get-what-you-want","status":"publish","type":"post","link":"https:\/\/memberpress.com\/es\/blog\/6-best-ways-to-get-what-you-want\/","title":{"rendered":"Las 6 mejores maneras de conseguir lo que quieres"},"content":{"rendered":"<p>Esto puede parecer un tema muy ego\u00edsta para una entrada de blog. En cierto modo, lo es, pero no de la forma en que usted podr\u00eda estar pensando. A veces, \"conseguir lo que uno quiere\" puede verse como una idea egoc\u00e9ntrica negativa. Lo ideal es que una gran persona sea generosa y amable y no se preocupe demasiado por s\u00ed misma o por lo que quiere.<\/p><div id=\"ez-toc-container\" class=\"ez-toc-v2_0_82_2 ez-toc-wrap-center counter-hierarchy ez-toc-counter ez-toc-custom ez-toc-container-direction\">\n<label for=\"ez-toc-cssicon-toggle-item-69d0804a1e65e\" class=\"ez-toc-cssicon-toggle-label\"><p class=\"ez-toc-title\" style=\"cursor:inherit\">QU\u00c9 HAY DENTRO<\/p>\n<span class=\"ez-toc-cssicon\"><span class=\"eztoc-hide\" style=\"display:none;\">Toggle<\/span><span class=\"ez-toc-icon-toggle-span\"><svg style=\"fill: #000000;color:#000000\" xmlns=\"http:\/\/www.w3.org\/2000\/svg\" class=\"list-377408\" width=\"20px\" height=\"20px\" viewbox=\"0 0 24 24\" fill=\"none\"><path d=\"M6 6H4v2h2V6zm14 0H8v2h12V6zM4 11h2v2H4v-2zm16 0H8v2h12v-2zM4 16h2v2H4v-2zm16 0H8v2h12v-2z\" fill=\"currentColor\"><\/path><\/svg><svg style=\"fill: #000000;color:#000000\" class=\"arrow-unsorted-368013\" xmlns=\"http:\/\/www.w3.org\/2000\/svg\" width=\"10px\" height=\"10px\" viewbox=\"0 0 24 24\" version=\"1.2\" baseprofile=\"tiny\"><path d=\"M18.2 9.3l-6.2-6.3-6.2 6.3c-.2.2-.3.4-.3.7s.1.5.3.7c.2.2.4.3.7.3h11c.3 0 .5-.1.7-.3.2-.2.3-.5.3-.7s-.1-.5-.3-.7zM5.8 14.7l6.2 6.3 6.2-6.3c.2-.2.3-.5.3-.7s-.1-.5-.3-.7c-.2-.2-.4-.3-.7-.3h-11c-.3 0-.5.1-.7.3-.2.2-.3.5-.3.7s.1.5.3.7z\"\/><\/svg><\/span><\/span><\/label><input type=\"checkbox\"  id=\"ez-toc-cssicon-toggle-item-69d0804a1e65e\"  \/><nav><ul class='ez-toc-list ez-toc-list-level-1' ><li class='ez-toc-page-1 ez-toc-heading-level-2'><a class=\"ez-toc-link ez-toc-heading-1\" href=\"https:\/\/memberpress.com\/es\/blog\/6-best-ways-to-get-what-you-want\/#1_Ask\" >1. Pregunta a<\/a><\/li><li class='ez-toc-page-1 ez-toc-heading-level-2'><a class=\"ez-toc-link ez-toc-heading-2\" href=\"https:\/\/memberpress.com\/es\/blog\/6-best-ways-to-get-what-you-want\/#2_Be_prepared_to_handle_it\" >2. Estar preparado para manejarlo<\/a><\/li><li class='ez-toc-page-1 ez-toc-heading-level-2'><a class=\"ez-toc-link ez-toc-heading-3\" href=\"https:\/\/memberpress.com\/es\/blog\/6-best-ways-to-get-what-you-want\/#3_Be_persistent\" >3. Ser persistente<\/a><\/li><li class='ez-toc-page-1 ez-toc-heading-level-2'><a class=\"ez-toc-link ez-toc-heading-4\" href=\"https:\/\/memberpress.com\/es\/blog\/6-best-ways-to-get-what-you-want\/#4_Set_goals_track_scoreboard\" >4. Establecimiento de objetivos, seguimiento, marcador<\/a><\/li><li class='ez-toc-page-1 ez-toc-heading-level-2'><a class=\"ez-toc-link ez-toc-heading-5\" href=\"https:\/\/memberpress.com\/es\/blog\/6-best-ways-to-get-what-you-want\/#5_Study_people_who_have_what_you_want\" >5. Estudia a las personas que tienen lo que t\u00fa quieres<\/a><\/li><li class='ez-toc-page-1 ez-toc-heading-level-2'><a class=\"ez-toc-link ez-toc-heading-6\" href=\"https:\/\/memberpress.com\/es\/blog\/6-best-ways-to-get-what-you-want\/#6_Help_others_get_what_they_want\" >6. Ayudar a los dem\u00e1s a conseguir lo que quieren<\/a><\/li><li class='ez-toc-page-1 ez-toc-heading-level-2'><a class=\"ez-toc-link ez-toc-heading-7\" href=\"https:\/\/memberpress.com\/es\/blog\/6-best-ways-to-get-what-you-want\/#Summary\" >Resumen<\/a><\/li><\/ul><\/nav><\/div>\n\n\n\n\n<p>Sin embargo, creo que lo veo desde una perspectiva \u00fanica. Un ejemplo de \"conseguir lo que uno quiere\" podr\u00eda ser dar de comer a una familia necesitada o ense\u00f1ar a alguien a realizar por s\u00ed mismo una tarea que otros hab\u00edan hecho antes por \u00e9l. <\/p>\n\n\n\n<p>No tiene por qu\u00e9 ser un ejercicio narcisista. De una forma muy real, \"conseguir lo que quieres\" es lo que hacemos todos los d\u00edas. Incluso si nos consumimos ayudando a los dem\u00e1s y evitando cosas para nosotros mismos, es lo que queremos y lo que hemos elegido hacer.<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p>Estoy dejando convenientemente de lado la realidad de que muchas personas se ven obligadas a hacer cosas que no quieren hacer todos los d\u00edas. Es una circunstancia muy real para muchos en este mundo. Creo que la gran mayor\u00eda de nosotros podemos vivir nuestros d\u00edas con relativa libertad para hacer y elegir lo que queremos hacer. <\/p>\n\n\n\n<p>Todos queremos algo. Nuestros deseos son tan diversos como lo somos las personas. Y creo que los siguientes consejos te ayudar\u00e1n a hacer realidad tus deseos, sean cuales sean.<\/p>\n\n\n\n<h2 class=\"wp-block-heading\"><span class=\"ez-toc-section\" id=\"1_Ask\"><\/span>1. Pregunta a<span class=\"ez-toc-section-end\"><\/span><\/h2>\n\n\n\n<p>Esto tambi\u00e9n se conoce como la primera regla de la negociaci\u00f3n. Si no lo pides, no lo conseguir\u00e1s. Es casi imposible que algo aparezca de la nada s\u00f3lo porque se te haya pasado por la cabeza. Se sorprender\u00e1 de todo lo que puede conseguir si se limita a pedir. Muchos de nosotros tenemos miedo de pedir por temor a ser rechazados o por alguna idea cultural de que no es apropiado hacerlo. Si puedes superar ese miedo, el cielo es el l\u00edmite.<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p>Este principio me lo ense\u00f1\u00f3 un hombre para el que sol\u00eda trabajar, el escritor Richard Paul Evans. Escribi\u00f3 un libro llamado, <a href=\"http:\/\/www.richardpaulevans.com\/portfolio-item\/the-5-lessons-a-millionaire-taught-me\/\" target=\"_blank\" rel=\"noopener\">Las 5 lecciones que un millonario me ense\u00f1\u00f3 sobre la vida y la riqueza.<\/a>\u00a0 Una de las cosas que un millonario me ense\u00f1\u00f3 fue a preguntar: \"\u00bfEs eso lo mejor que puede hacer por m\u00ed?\" cuando participaba en casi cualquier transacci\u00f3n. <\/p>\n\n\n\n<p>Es asombroso lo que la gente hace por ti cuando haces esta sencilla pregunta. No tiene por qu\u00e9 ser una confrontaci\u00f3n, como si estuvieras regateando. Es una simple pregunta. Si te dicen que no, sonr\u00edes, das las gracias y sigues adelante.<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p>Esto no quiere decir que vayas a conseguir todo lo que quieras por el mero hecho de pedirlo. Se trata m\u00e1s bien de una herramienta que puedes utilizar para avanzar en el camino hacia la consecuci\u00f3n de algo. Si te rechazan, pasa r\u00e1pidamente al siguiente m\u00e9todo para conseguir lo que quieres. No dejes que el rechazo te detenga. Podr\u00e1s simplemente archivar el pensamiento de que al menos has preguntado primero.<\/p>\n\n\n\n<h2 class=\"wp-block-heading\"><span class=\"ez-toc-section\" id=\"2_Be_prepared_to_handle_it\"><\/span>2. Estar preparado para manejarlo<span class=\"ez-toc-section-end\"><\/span><\/h2>\n\n\n\n<p>Este es un concepto en el que la mayor\u00eda de la gente no piensa y es sorprendentemente nuevo para muchos. \u00bfHas tenido alguna vez la experiencia de pensar que quer\u00edas algo y ponerte a trabajar para conseguirlo y darte cuenta de que no era lo que quer\u00edas? <\/p>\n\n\n\n<p>Algunas personas persiguen la fama s\u00f3lo para darse cuenta m\u00e1s tarde de que han perdido su intimidad y su capacidad de moverse libremente. O buscan un gran ascenso s\u00f3lo para descubrir que los requisitos del nuevo trabajo no encajan realmente con lo que ve\u00edan para su carrera. Una de las primeras cosas en las que deber\u00edamos pensar cuando decidimos que queremos algo es preguntarnos si estamos preparados para afrontar lo que venga con esa cosa.<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p>Un material muy com\u00fan que se desea y luego se lamenta son los barcos. A mucha gente le encanta la \"idea\" de tener un barco. Se enamoran de la idea de salir a navegar con la familia y los amigos y poder ver lugares hermosos y disfrutar del mundo de una forma nueva. <\/p>\n\n\n\n<p>Despu\u00e9s, los costes y los problemas de almacenamiento y mantenimiento hacen que deje de ser una buena idea. Un poco de investigaci\u00f3n y estudio sobre lo que supone poseer y mantener un barco antes de comprarlo preparar\u00eda a uno para saber en lo que se est\u00e1 metiendo. Tal vez se dar\u00edan cuenta de que ser\u00eda demasiado para ellos y que un alquiler ocasional de un barco satisfar\u00eda mejor sus deseos. <\/p>\n\n\n\n<p>Puede que los \"costes\" no te asusten, pero ahora est\u00e1s preparado para cuando surjan. En resumidas cuentas, un poco de reflexi\u00f3n y preparaci\u00f3n antes de conseguir lo que quieres contribuir\u00e1 en gran medida a tu felicidad despu\u00e9s de conseguirlo.<\/p>\n\n\n\n<h2 class=\"wp-block-heading\"><span class=\"ez-toc-section\" id=\"3_Be_persistent\"><\/span>3. Ser persistente<span class=\"ez-toc-section-end\"><\/span><\/h2>\n\n\n\n<p>Una de las cosas m\u00e1s comunes en esta vida es decidir que quieres algo, ir tras ello y luego abandonar la idea a la primera se\u00f1al de dificultad. Se explica como \"bueno, quiz\u00e1s no quer\u00eda eso despu\u00e9s de todo\". Puede que sea cierto, pero sospecho que la mayor\u00eda de las veces no lo es del todo. <\/p>\n\n\n\n<p>Qu\u00e9 gran sensaci\u00f3n cuando trabajamos duro por algo y pasamos por mucho dolor para conseguirlo y luego, cuando por fin lo logramos, \u00a1sentimos que hemos conquistado el mundo! Saber antes de empezar a trabajar por algo que te vas a enfrentar a retos y dificultades te ayudar\u00e1 a superarlos m\u00e1s f\u00e1cilmente.<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p>Dicho esto, una parte fundamental de la perseverancia es saber cu\u00e1ndo hay que abandonar. Algunas personas nunca se rinden. A menudo esto se considera una virtud y un punto fuerte. En realidad, es una debilidad. La verdadera fuerza es desarrollar la capacidad de discernimiento para saber cu\u00e1ndo es el momento de apagar la persistencia y seguir adelante. <\/p>\n\n\n\n<p>\"Nunca me rend\u00ed y persist\u00ed hasta conseguir lo que quer\u00eda, por lo tanto, era correcto y bueno\". Esa es la creencia generalmente aceptada, pero a menudo es err\u00f3nea. No conseguir lo que uno quiere se ve como un fracaso. Una persona inteligente ve ese \"fracaso\" como una lecci\u00f3n. Una lecci\u00f3n para aprender mejor lo que realmente quiere y cambiar de rumbo para conseguirlo. En resumen, no hay que rendirse, pero hay que saber cu\u00e1ndo hacerlo. Suena contradictorio, pero no lo es.<\/p>\n\n\n\n<h2 class=\"wp-block-heading\"><span class=\"ez-toc-section\" id=\"4_Set_goals_track_scoreboard\"><\/span>4. Establecimiento de objetivos, seguimiento, marcador<span class=\"ez-toc-section-end\"><\/span><\/h2>\n\n\n\n<p>Un objetivo no escrito no es m\u00e1s que un deseo. Todos lo hemos o\u00eddo al menos mil veces. Puede que no sea 100% cierto, pero tiene mucho peso. Escribir algo es una forma muy f\u00edsica de comprometerse con algo. Psicol\u00f3gicamente, activa un interruptor en tu cabeza y lo hace m\u00e1s real. Ahora tienes que rendir cuentas. Contigo mismo. Tambi\u00e9n deber\u00edas compartir tus objetivos con otras personas, como un ser querido o un colega de confianza, y llevar esa responsabilidad al siguiente nivel.<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p>Una parte de la fijaci\u00f3n de objetivos que a menudo se olvida y se deja de lado es el seguimiento y la puntuaci\u00f3n. El seguimiento de nuestro progreso hacia la consecuci\u00f3n de algo que queremos es crucial para el \u00e9xito. <a href=\"https:\/\/www.franklincovey.com\/the-4-disciplines\/discipline-3-scoreboard.html\" target=\"_blank\" rel=\"noopener\">Marcador<\/a> es una pr\u00e1ctica en la que tomas cualquier m\u00e9trica asociada a tu objetivo y la muestras en alg\u00fan lugar f\u00e1cil de ver. <\/p>\n\n\n\n<p>De ah\u00ed el uso de la palabra \u2018marcador'. Es un recordatorio casi constante de c\u00f3mo vas avanzando hacia tus objetivos. Por ejemplo, si est\u00e1s estudiando para obtener un t\u00edtulo universitario, puedes llevar un registro de los cr\u00e9ditos que te faltan para graduarte. Coloca el n\u00famero en un lugar donde lo veas a menudo y te recordar\u00e1 lo que te queda por recorrer, lo que te motivar\u00e1 a seguir esforz\u00e1ndote. <\/p>\n\n\n\n<p>Algunas cosas son m\u00e1s dif\u00edciles de rastrear que otras, pero muchas cosas no tendr\u00e1n alg\u00fan tipo de n\u00famero asociado a ellas. Ahorrar dinero para un barco, por ejemplo. Si pones esa cifra en un lugar visible, puede que decidas saltarte una comida y comer bocadillos de at\u00fan una noche para alcanzar antes tu objetivo. Lo que no se ve, no se piensa.<\/p>\n\n\n\n<h2 class=\"wp-block-heading\"><span class=\"ez-toc-section\" id=\"5_Study_people_who_have_what_you_want\"><\/span>5. Estudia a las personas que tienen lo que t\u00fa quieres<span class=\"ez-toc-section-end\"><\/span><\/h2>\n\n\n\n<p>Independientemente de lo que quieras, lo m\u00e1s probable es que haya alguien que lo tenga o lo haya conseguido antes que t\u00fa. Estudia a esas personas. Intenta aprender c\u00f3mo lograron lo que t\u00fa quieres conseguir. \u00bfQu\u00e9 tuvieron que hacer para conseguir lo que quer\u00edan? Averigua a qu\u00e9 retos y dificultades se enfrentaron. <\/p>\n\n\n\n<p>Si puede, hable con ellos y preg\u00fanteles qu\u00e9 har\u00edan de otra manera. Este sencillo paso puede ayudarte a evitar perder mucho tiempo, esfuerzo e incluso dinero en conseguir lo que quieres. Este paso tiene un elemento del paso 1. Preguntar. Las conversaciones sencillas con la gente pueden ense\u00f1arte mucho. Mucha gente admirar\u00e1 tu inter\u00e9s e incluso podr\u00eda ofrecerse a ayudarte a conseguir tus objetivos.<\/p>\n\n\n\n<h2 class=\"wp-block-heading\"><span class=\"ez-toc-section\" id=\"6_Help_others_get_what_they_want\"><\/span>6. Ayudar a los dem\u00e1s a conseguir lo que quieren<span class=\"ez-toc-section-end\"><\/span><\/h2>\n\n\n\n<p>Creo en el karma, en cosechar lo que se siembra, en la Regla de Oro o como se quiera llamar. Servir y ayudar a los dem\u00e1s te har\u00e1 ganar bendiciones del universo. Lo que haces y c\u00f3mo tratas a los dem\u00e1s se te devuelve. Es imposible de cuantificar, y puede que nunca sepas exactamente cu\u00e1ndo te paga el universo. <\/p>\n\n\n\n<p>Dedicar tiempo a ayudar a los dem\u00e1s a conseguir lo que quieren tendr\u00e1 dos efectos. En primer lugar, acumular\u00e1s un buen Karma que puede ayudarte en tus esfuerzos por conseguir lo que quieres. Y segundo, te ayudar\u00e1 a aprender. Aprender\u00e1s lo que motiva a los dem\u00e1s y las diferentes maneras que hay de hacer las cosas en este mundo.<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p>Sin embargo, hay una trampa. Servir a los dem\u00e1s con el \u00fanico prop\u00f3sito de ayudarte a ti mismo ser\u00e1 contraproducente. Usted debe honestamente y con un coraz\u00f3n genuino tratar de ayudar a otros a superar sus desaf\u00edos y lograr lo que se est\u00e1n esforzando. Hay un beneficio secundario secreto que compartir\u00e9 contigo ahora. El servicio a los dem\u00e1s tiene el efecto de cambiar las cosas que quieres. Puede que acabes decidiendo que el barco no es tan buena idea despu\u00e9s de todo.<\/p>\n\n\n\n<h2 class=\"wp-block-heading\"><span class=\"ez-toc-section\" id=\"Summary\"><\/span>Resumen<span class=\"ez-toc-section-end\"><\/span><\/h2>\n\n\n\n<p>Lo que pretendo transmitir con este tema es que si intentas conseguir lo que quieres de forma desordenada y desorganizada, ser\u00e1 un peque\u00f1o milagro que lo consigas. Aqu\u00ed se aplica el viejo dicho: \"Si no sabes ad\u00f3nde vas, cualquier camino te llevar\u00e1 all\u00ed\". <\/p>\n\n\n\n<p>Establecer un objetivo para un deseo, pedir ese deseo, persistir en el deseo, prepararte para recibir ese deseo, estudiar a otros que ya tienen lo que t\u00fa quieres y ayudar a otros a conseguir lo que quieren te llevar\u00e1 a la mayor parte del camino para conseguir lo que quieres. Sin embargo, a veces las cosas no est\u00e1n destinadas a suceder. <\/p>\n\n\n\n<p>Despu\u00e9s de un esfuerzo concertado siguiendo estos pasos puedes asegurarte que es cierto porque habr\u00e1s hecho todo lo posible para que as\u00ed sea. Buena suerte en tus esfuerzos por conseguir lo que quieres y espero sinceramente que 'quieras' y 'consigas' cosas buenas.<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p>Cu\u00e9ntame lo que piensas y comparte tus propios consejos para conseguir lo que quieres en los comentarios.<\/p>","protected":false},"excerpt":{"rendered":"<p>This may come off sounding like an extremely selfish topic for a blog post. In a way, it is, just not the way you might be thinking. Sometimes \u201cgetting what you want\u201d can be seen as a negative self-centered idea. 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So many of us are afraid to ask for fear of being rejected or out of some cultural idea that it isn\u2019t appropriate to do so. If you can get over that fear then the sky is the limit."}],"data":[],"style":{"textAlign":"left","color":"","dropCap":false,"parent_style":{}}},{"type":"core\/paragraph","render":"<p>I was taught this principle by a man I used to work for, Author Richard Paul Evans. He wrote a book called, <a href=\"http:\/\/www.richardpaulevans.com\/portfolio-item\/the-5-lessons-a-millionaire-taught-me\/\" target=\"_blank\" rel=\"noopener\">The 5 Lessons a Millionaire Taught Me About Life and Wealth.<\/a>\u00a0 One of the things said millionaire taught me was to ask, \u201cIs that the best you can do for me?\u201d when participating in just about any transaction. <\/p>","content":[{"type":"text","data":"I was taught this principle by a man I used to work for, Author Richard Paul Evans. 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It\u2019s just a simple question. If they say \u201cno,\u201d then you smile, say thanks, and move on."}],"data":[],"style":{"textAlign":"left","color":"","dropCap":false,"parent_style":{}}},{"type":"core\/paragraph","render":"<p>This isn't to say that you will get everything you want just by asking for it. It is more of a tool you can use to get further down the path to achieving something. If rejected, quickly move on to the next method of going after what you want. Don\u2019t let the rejection stop you. You will be able to just file away the thought that at least you asked first.<\/p>","content":[{"type":"text","data":"This isn't to say that you will get everything you want just by asking for it. It is more of a tool you can use to get further down the path to achieving something. If rejected, quickly move on to the next method of going after what you want. Don\u2019t let the rejection stop you. You will be able to just file away the thought that at least you asked first."}],"data":[],"style":{"textAlign":"left","color":"","dropCap":false,"parent_style":{}}},{"type":"core\/heading","render":"<h2 class=\"wp-block-heading\">2. Be prepared to handle it<\/h2>","content":"2. Estar preparado para manejarlo","data":[],"style":{"align":"left","parent_style":{},"header":"h2","fontSize":"27px"}},{"type":"core\/paragraph","render":"<p>This is one that most people don\u2019t think of and is a surprisingly new concept to many. Have you ever had an experience where you thought you wanted something and then went to work getting it only to realize maybe it wasn\u2019t such a great thing to want in the first place? <\/p>","content":[{"type":"text","data":"This is one that most people don\u2019t think of and is a surprisingly new concept to many. Have you ever had an experience where you thought you wanted something and then went to work getting it only to realize maybe it wasn\u2019t such a great thing to want in the first place? "}],"data":[],"style":{"textAlign":"left","color":"","dropCap":false,"parent_style":{}}},{"type":"core\/paragraph","render":"<p>Some people go after fame only to realize later that they have lost their privacy and their ability to move about freely. Or, seeking a big promotion only to find out that the requirements of the new job don\u2019t really jive with what they saw for their career. One of the first things we should think about when deciding we want something is to ask ourselves if we are ready to deal with whatever comes with that thing.<\/p>","content":[{"type":"text","data":"Some people go after fame only to realize later that they have lost their privacy and their ability to move about freely. Or, seeking a big promotion only to find out that the requirements of the new job don\u2019t really jive with what they saw for their career. One of the first things we should think about when deciding we want something is to ask ourselves if we are ready to deal with whatever comes with that thing."}],"data":[],"style":{"textAlign":"left","color":"","dropCap":false,"parent_style":{}}},{"type":"core\/paragraph","render":"<p>A common material thing wanted and then regretted are boats. Many people love the \u2018idea\u2019 of having a boat. They fall in love with the idea of being out on the water with family and friends and being able to see beautiful places and enjoy the world in a new way. <\/p>","content":[{"type":"text","data":"A common material thing wanted and then regretted are boats. Many people love the \u2018idea\u2019 of having a boat. They fall in love with the idea of being out on the water with family and friends and being able to see beautiful places and enjoy the world in a new way. "}],"data":[],"style":{"textAlign":"left","color":"","dropCap":false,"parent_style":{}}},{"type":"core\/paragraph","render":"<p>Then the costs and the problems of storage and maintenance hit and it\u2019s not such a great idea anymore. A little research and study into what it takes to own and maintain a boat before purchasing would prepare one to know what they are getting into. Maybe they would realize it would be too much for them and that an occasional boat rental would satisfy their wants better. <\/p>","content":[{"type":"text","data":"Then the costs and the problems of storage and maintenance hit and it\u2019s not such a great idea anymore. A little research and study into what it takes to own and maintain a boat before purchasing would prepare one to know what they are getting into. Maybe they would realize it would be too much for them and that an occasional boat rental would satisfy their wants better. "}],"data":[],"style":{"textAlign":"left","color":"","dropCap":false,"parent_style":{}}},{"type":"core\/paragraph","render":"<p>Maybe the \u2018costs\u2019 wouldn\u2019t scare one away but now you are prepared when they do come up. The bottom line is that a little thinking and preparation before you actually get your \u2018want\u2019 will go a long way towards your happiness after you get it.<\/p>","content":[{"type":"text","data":"Maybe the \u2018costs\u2019 wouldn\u2019t scare one away but now you are prepared when they do come up. The bottom line is that a little thinking and preparation before you actually get your \u2018want\u2019 will go a long way towards your happiness after you get it."}],"data":[],"style":{"textAlign":"left","color":"","dropCap":false,"parent_style":{}}},{"type":"core\/heading","render":"<h2 class=\"wp-block-heading\">3. Be persistent<\/h2>","content":"3. Ser persistente","data":[],"style":{"align":"left","parent_style":{},"header":"h2","fontSize":"27px"}},{"type":"core\/paragraph","render":"<p>One of the most common things in this life is deciding you want something, going after it, and then giving up on the idea at the first sign of difficulty. It gets explained away as \u201cwell, maybe I didn\u2019t really want that after all.\u201d That may actually be true but I suspect more often than not it\u2019s not the whole story. <\/p>","content":[{"type":"text","data":"One of the most common things in this life is deciding you want something, going after it, and then giving up on the idea at the first sign of difficulty. It gets explained away as \u201cwell, maybe I didn\u2019t really want that after all.\u201d That may actually be true but I suspect more often than not it\u2019s not the whole story. "}],"data":[],"style":{"textAlign":"left","color":"","dropCap":false,"parent_style":{}}},{"type":"core\/paragraph","render":"<p>How great a feeling it is when we work hard for something and go through a lot of pain to get it and then when we finally achieve it we feel like we\u2019ve conquered the world! Knowing before you start working toward something that you will be faced with challenges and difficulties will help you get through them easier.<\/p>","content":[{"type":"text","data":"How great a feeling it is when we work hard for something and go through a lot of pain to get it and then when we finally achieve it we feel like we\u2019ve conquered the world! Knowing before you start working toward something that you will be faced with challenges and difficulties will help you get through them easier."}],"data":[],"style":{"textAlign":"left","color":"","dropCap":false,"parent_style":{}}},{"type":"core\/paragraph","render":"<p>That being said, a key part of being persistent is knowing when to actually quit. Some people will just never give up. This is often looked at as a virtue and a strength. It is actually a weakness. The real strength is developing the skill of discernment to know when it\u2019s time to turn the persistence off and move on. <\/p>","content":[{"type":"text","data":"That being said, a key part of being persistent is knowing when to actually quit. Some people will just never give up. This is often looked at as a virtue and a strength. It is actually a weakness. The real strength is developing the skill of discernment to know when it\u2019s time to turn the persistence off and move on. "}],"data":[],"style":{"textAlign":"left","color":"","dropCap":false,"parent_style":{}}},{"type":"core\/paragraph","render":"<p>\u201cI never gave up and persisted till I got what I wanted, therefore, it was right and good.\u201d That is the generally accepted belief but it is oftentimes wrong. Not getting what you want is seen as a failure. A smart person sees that \u2018failure\u2019 as a lesson. A lesson in learning better what they really want and changing course to achieve it. In short, don\u2019t give up but know when to give up. Sounds contradictory but it isn\u2019t.<\/p>","content":[{"type":"text","data":"\u201cI never gave up and persisted till I got what I wanted, therefore, it was right and good.\u201d That is the generally accepted belief but it is oftentimes wrong. Not getting what you want is seen as a failure. A smart person sees that \u2018failure\u2019 as a lesson. A lesson in learning better what they really want and changing course to achieve it. In short, don\u2019t give up but know when to give up. Sounds contradictory but it isn\u2019t."}],"data":[],"style":{"textAlign":"left","color":"","dropCap":false,"parent_style":{}}},{"type":"core\/heading","render":"<h2 class=\"wp-block-heading\">4. Set goals, track, scoreboard<\/h2>","content":"4. Establecimiento de objetivos, seguimiento, marcador","data":[],"style":{"align":"left","parent_style":{},"header":"h2","fontSize":"27px"}},{"type":"core\/paragraph","render":"<p>A goal not written down is just a wish. We have all heard that at least a thousand times. It may not be 100% true but it carries a lot of weight. Writing something down is a very physical way to commit to something. Psychologically it flips a switch in your head and makes it more real. Now you have some accountability. To yourself. You should also share your goals with others such as a close loved one or a trusted colleague and take that accountability to the next level.<\/p>","content":[{"type":"text","data":"A goal not written down is just a wish. We have all heard that at least a thousand times. It may not be 100% true but it carries a lot of weight. Writing something down is a very physical way to commit to something. Psychologically it flips a switch in your head and makes it more real. Now you have some accountability. To yourself. You should also share your goals with others such as a close loved one or a trusted colleague and take that accountability to the next level."}],"data":[],"style":{"textAlign":"left","color":"","dropCap":false,"parent_style":{}}},{"type":"core\/paragraph","render":"<p>A part of setting goals that often gets forgotten and left out is tracking and score boarding. Tracking our progress toward getting something we want is crucial for success. <a href=\"https:\/\/www.franklincovey.com\/the-4-disciplines\/discipline-3-scoreboard.html\" target=\"_blank\" rel=\"noopener\">Scoreboarding<\/a> is a practice where you take any metrics associated with your goal and display them somewhere easy to see. <\/p>","content":[{"type":"text","data":"A part of setting goals that often gets forgotten and left out is tracking and score boarding. Tracking our progress toward getting something we want is crucial for success. <a href=\"https:\/\/www.franklincovey.com\/the-4-disciplines\/discipline-3-scoreboard.html\" target=\"_blank\" rel=\"noopener\">Scoreboarding<\/a> is a practice where you take any metrics associated with your goal and display them somewhere easy to see. "}],"data":[],"style":{"textAlign":"left","color":"","dropCap":false,"parent_style":{}}},{"type":"core\/paragraph","render":"<p>Hence the use of the word 'scoreboard.' It is a near constant reminder of how you are doing against your goals. For example, if you were working towards a college degree you could track your remaining credit hours needed for graduation. Display the number where you will see it often and it will remind you how much further you have to go and will motivate you to keep up your efforts. <\/p>","content":[{"type":"text","data":"Hence the use of the word 'scoreboard.' It is a near constant reminder of how you are doing against your goals. For example, if you were working towards a college degree you could track your remaining credit hours needed for graduation. Display the number where you will see it often and it will remind you how much further you have to go and will motivate you to keep up your efforts. "}],"data":[],"style":{"textAlign":"left","color":"","dropCap":false,"parent_style":{}}},{"type":"core\/paragraph","render":"<p>Some things are harder to track than others but many things you won't have some kind of number associated with them. Saving money for a boat for example. Put that number somewhere visible and you may choose to skip an \u2018eat-out\u2019 and have tuna sandwiches one night so that you can reach your boat goal sooner. Out of sight out of mind definitely applies here.<\/p>","content":[{"type":"text","data":"Some things are harder to track than others but many things you won't have some kind of number associated with them. Saving money for a boat for example. Put that number somewhere visible and you may choose to skip an \u2018eat-out\u2019 and have tuna sandwiches one night so that you can reach your boat goal sooner. Out of sight out of mind definitely applies here."}],"data":[],"style":{"textAlign":"left","color":"","dropCap":false,"parent_style":{}}},{"type":"core\/heading","render":"<h2 class=\"wp-block-heading\">5. Study people who have what you want<\/h2>","content":"5. Estudia a las personas que tienen lo que t\u00fa quieres","data":[],"style":{"align":"left","parent_style":{},"header":"h2","fontSize":"27px"}},{"type":"core\/paragraph","render":"<p>No matter what it is you want there is likely someone else out there that has it or has achieved it before you. Study those people. Try to learn how they achieved what you are trying to achieve. What did they have to do to be successful in getting what they wanted? Find out the challenges and difficulties they faced. <\/p>","content":[{"type":"text","data":"No matter what it is you want there is likely someone else out there that has it or has achieved it before you. Study those people. Try to learn how they achieved what you are trying to achieve. What did they have to do to be successful in getting what they wanted? Find out the challenges and difficulties they faced. "}],"data":[],"style":{"textAlign":"left","color":"","dropCap":false,"parent_style":{}}},{"type":"core\/paragraph","render":"<p>If you can, talk to them and ask them what they would do differently. This simple step can help you avoid wasting a lot of time, effort, and even money in getting what you want. This step has an element of step 1. Ask. Simple conversations with people can teach you a lot. A lot of people will admire your interest and might even offer to help you to achieve your goals.<\/p>","content":[{"type":"text","data":"If you can, talk to them and ask them what they would do differently. This simple step can help you avoid wasting a lot of time, effort, and even money in getting what you want. This step has an element of step 1. Ask. Simple conversations with people can teach you a lot. A lot of people will admire your interest and might even offer to help you to achieve your goals."}],"data":[],"style":{"textAlign":"left","color":"","dropCap":false,"parent_style":{}}},{"type":"core\/heading","render":"<h2 class=\"wp-block-heading\">6. Help others get what they want<\/h2>","content":"6. Ayudar a los dem\u00e1s a conseguir lo que quieren","data":[],"style":{"align":"left","parent_style":{},"header":"h2","fontSize":"27px"}},{"type":"core\/paragraph","render":"<p>I believe in Karma, reaping what you sow, the Golden Rule or whatever you choose to call it. Serving and helping others will earn you blessings from the universe. What you do and how you treat others really will come back to you. It\u2019s impossible to quantify, and you may never know exactly when the universe pays up. <\/p>","content":[{"type":"text","data":"I believe in Karma, reaping what you sow, the Golden Rule or whatever you choose to call it. Serving and helping others will earn you blessings from the universe. What you do and how you treat others really will come back to you. It\u2019s impossible to quantify, and you may never know exactly when the universe pays up. "}],"data":[],"style":{"textAlign":"left","color":"","dropCap":false,"parent_style":{}}},{"type":"core\/paragraph","render":"<p>Spending time helping others to achieve what they want will have two effects. First, you will build up good Karma that can help you in your efforts to achieve what you want. And second, it will help you learn. You will learn what motivates others and what different ways there are to get things done in this world.<\/p>","content":[{"type":"text","data":"Spending time helping others to achieve what they want will have two effects. First, you will build up good Karma that can help you in your efforts to achieve what you want. And second, it will help you learn. You will learn what motivates others and what different ways there are to get things done in this world."}],"data":[],"style":{"textAlign":"left","color":"","dropCap":false,"parent_style":{}}},{"type":"core\/paragraph","render":"<p>There is a catch however. Serving others with the sole purpose of helping yourself will backfire. You must honestly and with a genuine heart seek to help others overcome their challenges and achieve what they are striving for. There is a secret side benefit I will share with you now. Service to others has an effect of changing the things you want. You might end up deciding that boat isn\u2019t such a great idea after all.<\/p>","content":[{"type":"text","data":"There is a catch however. Serving others with the sole purpose of helping yourself will backfire. You must honestly and with a genuine heart seek to help others overcome their challenges and achieve what they are striving for. There is a secret side benefit I will share with you now. Service to others has an effect of changing the things you want. You might end up deciding that boat isn\u2019t such a great idea after all."}],"data":[],"style":{"textAlign":"left","color":"","dropCap":false,"parent_style":{}}},{"type":"core\/heading","render":"<h2 class=\"wp-block-heading\">Summary<\/h2>","content":"Resumen","data":[],"style":{"align":"left","parent_style":{},"header":"h2","fontSize":"27px"}},{"type":"core\/paragraph","render":"<p>The main point I am trying to get across with this topic is that if you go at getting what you want in a haphazard, unorganized way then it will be a minor miracle if you actually accomplish anything. The old adage, \u201cIf you don\u2019t know where you are headed, every road will get you there\u201d applies here. <\/p>","content":[{"type":"text","data":"The main point I am trying to get across with this topic is that if you go at getting what you want in a haphazard, unorganized way then it will be a minor miracle if you actually accomplish anything. The old adage, \u201cIf you don\u2019t know where you are headed, every road will get you there\u201d applies here. "}],"data":[],"style":{"textAlign":"left","color":"","dropCap":false,"parent_style":{}}},{"type":"core\/paragraph","render":"<p>Setting a goal for a want, asking for that want, persisting towards the want, preparing yourself to receive that want, studying others who already have what you want, and helping others get what they want will get you most of the way to getting what you want. However, sometimes things just aren\u2019t meant to be. <\/p>","content":[{"type":"text","data":"Setting a goal for a want, asking for that want, persisting towards the want, preparing yourself to receive that want, studying others who already have what you want, and helping others get what they want will get you most of the way to getting what you want. However, sometimes things just aren\u2019t meant to be. "}],"data":[],"style":{"textAlign":"left","color":"","dropCap":false,"parent_style":{}}},{"type":"core\/paragraph","render":"<p>After a concerted effort following these steps you can assure yourself that is true because you will have done everything you can to make it happen. Good luck in your efforts to get what you want and I sincerely hope you \u2018want\u2019 and \u2018get\u2019 good things.<\/p>","content":[{"type":"text","data":"After a concerted effort following these steps you can assure yourself that is true because you will have done everything you can to make it happen. Good luck in your efforts to get what you want and I sincerely hope you \u2018want\u2019 and \u2018get\u2019 good things."}],"data":[],"style":{"textAlign":"left","color":"","dropCap":false,"parent_style":{}}},{"type":"core\/paragraph","render":"<p>Let me know what you think and share your own tips for getting what you want in the comments.<\/p>","content":[{"type":"text","data":"Let me know what you think and share your own tips for getting what you want in the comments."}],"data":[],"style":{"textAlign":"left","color":"","dropCap":false,"parent_style":{}}}],"app_access":{"can_access":true,"restrict_message":null},"_links":{"self":[{"href":"https:\/\/memberpress.com\/es\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/posts\/7380","targetHints":{"allow":["GET"]}}],"collection":[{"href":"https:\/\/memberpress.com\/es\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/posts"}],"about":[{"href":"https:\/\/memberpress.com\/es\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/types\/post"}],"author":[{"embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/memberpress.com\/es\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/users\/2474"}],"replies":[{"embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/memberpress.com\/es\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/comments?post=7380"}],"version-history":[{"count":0,"href":"https:\/\/memberpress.com\/es\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/posts\/7380\/revisions"}],"wp:featuredmedia":[{"embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/memberpress.com\/es\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/media\/15183"}],"wp:attachment":[{"href":"https:\/\/memberpress.com\/es\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/media?parent=7380"}],"wp:term":[{"taxonomy":"category","embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/memberpress.com\/es\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/categories?post=7380"},{"taxonomy":"post_tag","embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/memberpress.com\/es\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/tags?post=7380"}],"curies":[{"name":"wp","href":"https:\/\/api.w.org\/{rel}","templated":true}]}}