{"id":7380,"date":"2015-09-17T13:54:11","date_gmt":"2015-09-17T19:54:11","guid":{"rendered":"https:\/\/memberpress.com\/?p=7380"},"modified":"2021-03-15T11:38:47","modified_gmt":"2021-03-15T17:38:47","slug":"6-best-ways-to-get-what-you-want","status":"publish","type":"post","link":"https:\/\/memberpress.com\/fr\/blog\/6-best-ways-to-get-what-you-want\/","title":{"rendered":"6 meilleures fa\u00e7ons d'obtenir ce que vous voulez"},"content":{"rendered":"<p>Cela peut sembler \u00eatre un sujet extr\u00eamement \u00e9go\u00efste pour un article de blog. D'une certaine mani\u00e8re, c'est le cas, mais pas de la mani\u00e8re dont vous pourriez le penser. Parfois, \"obtenir ce que l'on veut\" peut \u00eatre per\u00e7u comme une id\u00e9e n\u00e9gative et \u00e9gocentrique. Dans l'id\u00e9al, une personne formidable devrait \u00eatre g\u00e9n\u00e9reuse et gentille et ne pas trop se pr\u00e9occuper d'elle-m\u00eame ou de ce qu'elle veut.<\/p><div id=\"ez-toc-container\" class=\"ez-toc-v2_0_82_2 ez-toc-wrap-center counter-hierarchy ez-toc-counter ez-toc-custom ez-toc-container-direction\">\n<label for=\"ez-toc-cssicon-toggle-item-6a5ae40df03bf\" class=\"ez-toc-cssicon-toggle-label\"><p class=\"ez-toc-title\" style=\"cursor:inherit\">CE QU'IL Y A \u00c0 L'INT\u00c9RIEUR<\/p>\n<span class=\"ez-toc-cssicon\"><span class=\"eztoc-hide\" style=\"display:none;\">Toggle<\/span><span class=\"ez-toc-icon-toggle-span\"><svg style=\"fill: #000000;color:#000000\" xmlns=\"http:\/\/www.w3.org\/2000\/svg\" class=\"list-377408\" width=\"20px\" height=\"20px\" viewbox=\"0 0 24 24\" fill=\"none\"><path d=\"M6 6H4v2h2V6zm14 0H8v2h12V6zM4 11h2v2H4v-2zm16 0H8v2h12v-2zM4 16h2v2H4v-2zm16 0H8v2h12v-2z\" fill=\"currentColor\"><\/path><\/svg><svg style=\"fill: #000000;color:#000000\" class=\"arrow-unsorted-368013\" xmlns=\"http:\/\/www.w3.org\/2000\/svg\" width=\"10px\" height=\"10px\" viewbox=\"0 0 24 24\" version=\"1.2\" baseprofile=\"tiny\"><path d=\"M18.2 9.3l-6.2-6.3-6.2 6.3c-.2.2-.3.4-.3.7s.1.5.3.7c.2.2.4.3.7.3h11c.3 0 .5-.1.7-.3.2-.2.3-.5.3-.7s-.1-.5-.3-.7zM5.8 14.7l6.2 6.3 6.2-6.3c.2-.2.3-.5.3-.7s-.1-.5-.3-.7c-.2-.2-.4-.3-.7-.3h-11c-.3 0-.5.1-.7.3-.2.2-.3.5-.3.7s.1.5.3.7z\"\/><\/svg><\/span><\/span><\/label><input type=\"checkbox\"  id=\"ez-toc-cssicon-toggle-item-6a5ae40df03bf\"  \/><nav><ul class='ez-toc-list ez-toc-list-level-1' ><li class='ez-toc-page-1 ez-toc-heading-level-2'><a class=\"ez-toc-link ez-toc-heading-1\" href=\"https:\/\/memberpress.com\/fr\/blog\/6-best-ways-to-get-what-you-want\/#1_Ask\" >1. Demander<\/a><\/li><li class='ez-toc-page-1 ez-toc-heading-level-2'><a class=\"ez-toc-link ez-toc-heading-2\" href=\"https:\/\/memberpress.com\/fr\/blog\/6-best-ways-to-get-what-you-want\/#2_Be_prepared_to_handle_it\" >2. \u00catre pr\u00eat \u00e0 faire face \u00e0 la situation<\/a><\/li><li class='ez-toc-page-1 ez-toc-heading-level-2'><a class=\"ez-toc-link ez-toc-heading-3\" href=\"https:\/\/memberpress.com\/fr\/blog\/6-best-ways-to-get-what-you-want\/#3_Be_persistent\" >3. Faire preuve de pers\u00e9v\u00e9rance<\/a><\/li><li class='ez-toc-page-1 ez-toc-heading-level-2'><a class=\"ez-toc-link ez-toc-heading-4\" href=\"https:\/\/memberpress.com\/fr\/blog\/6-best-ways-to-get-what-you-want\/#4_Set_goals_track_scoreboard\" >4. Fixer des objectifs, assurer le suivi, \u00e9tablir un tableau de bord<\/a><\/li><li class='ez-toc-page-1 ez-toc-heading-level-2'><a class=\"ez-toc-link ez-toc-heading-5\" href=\"https:\/\/memberpress.com\/fr\/blog\/6-best-ways-to-get-what-you-want\/#5_Study_people_who_have_what_you_want\" >5. \u00c9tudier les personnes qui poss\u00e8dent ce que vous voulez<\/a><\/li><li class='ez-toc-page-1 ez-toc-heading-level-2'><a class=\"ez-toc-link ez-toc-heading-6\" href=\"https:\/\/memberpress.com\/fr\/blog\/6-best-ways-to-get-what-you-want\/#6_Help_others_get_what_they_want\" >6. Aider les autres \u00e0 obtenir ce qu'ils veulent<\/a><\/li><li class='ez-toc-page-1 ez-toc-heading-level-2'><a class=\"ez-toc-link ez-toc-heading-7\" href=\"https:\/\/memberpress.com\/fr\/blog\/6-best-ways-to-get-what-you-want\/#Summary\" >R\u00e9sum\u00e9<\/a><\/li><\/ul><\/nav><\/div>\n\n\n\n\n<p>Cependant, je pense que je vois les choses sous un angle unique. Un exemple d'\"obtenir ce que l'on veut\" pourrait \u00eatre de fournir un repas \u00e0 une famille dans le besoin ou d'apprendre \u00e0 quelqu'un \u00e0 effectuer une t\u00e2che que d'autres avaient d\u00e9j\u00e0 faite pour lui. <\/p>\n\n\n\n<p>Il ne s'agit pas n\u00e9cessairement d'un exercice narcissique. D'une mani\u00e8re tr\u00e8s concr\u00e8te, \"obtenir ce que l'on veut\" est notre raison d'\u00eatre tout au long de la journ\u00e9e, tous les jours. M\u00eame s'il s'agit d'aider les autres et d'\u00e9viter les choses pour nous-m\u00eames, c'est ce que nous voulons et avons choisi de faire.<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p>Je passe commod\u00e9ment sous silence le fait que de nombreuses personnes sont oblig\u00e9es de faire des choses qu'elles ne veulent pas faire tous les jours. C'est une situation tr\u00e8s r\u00e9elle pour de nombreuses personnes dans ce monde. Je pense que la grande majorit\u00e9 d'entre nous, \u00e0 notre \u00e9poque, est en mesure de vivre ses journ\u00e9es avec une relative libert\u00e9 de faire et de choisir ce qu'elle veut faire. <\/p>\n\n\n\n<p>Nous voulons tous quelque chose. Nos d\u00e9sirs sont aussi divers que nous le sommes en tant que peuple. Je pense que les conseils suivants vous aideront \u00e0 r\u00e9aliser vos souhaits, quels qu'ils soient.<\/p>\n\n\n\n<h2 class=\"wp-block-heading\"><span class=\"ez-toc-section\" id=\"1_Ask\"><\/span>1. Demander<span class=\"ez-toc-section-end\"><\/span><\/h2>\n\n\n\n<p>C'est ce que l'on appelle la premi\u00e8re r\u00e8gle de la n\u00e9gociation. Si vous ne demandez pas, vous n'obtiendrez pas. Il est pratiquement impossible que quelque chose surgisse de nulle part simplement parce que l'id\u00e9e vous en a travers\u00e9 l'esprit. Vous serez \u00e9tonn\u00e9 de voir tout ce que vous pouvez accomplir si vous demandez. Beaucoup d'entre nous ont peur de demander par crainte d'\u00eatre rejet\u00e9s ou en raison d'une id\u00e9e culturelle selon laquelle il n'est pas appropri\u00e9 de le faire. Si vous parvenez \u00e0 surmonter cette peur, vous n'aurez plus de limites.<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p>Ce principe m'a \u00e9t\u00e9 enseign\u00e9 par un homme pour lequel je travaillais, l'auteur Richard Paul Evans. Il a \u00e9crit un livre intitul\u00e9, <a href=\"http:\/\/www.richardpaulevans.com\/portfolio-item\/the-5-lessons-a-millionaire-taught-me\/\" target=\"_blank\" rel=\"noopener\">Les 5 le\u00e7ons qu'un millionnaire m'a apprises sur la vie et la richesse.<\/a>\u00a0 L'une des choses que ce millionnaire m'a apprises, c'est de demander : \"Est-ce le mieux que vous puissiez faire pour moi ? <\/p>\n\n\n\n<p>Il est \u00e9tonnant de voir ce que les gens font pour vous lorsque vous posez cette simple question. Il n'est pas n\u00e9cessaire d'\u00eatre conflictuel comme si vous \u00e9tiez en train de mener une n\u00e9gociation difficile. C'est une simple question. S'ils r\u00e9pondent \"non\", vous souriez, vous remerciez et vous passez \u00e0 autre chose.<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p>Cela ne veut pas dire que vous obtiendrez tout ce que vous voulez simplement en le demandant. Il s'agit plut\u00f4t d'un outil que vous pouvez utiliser pour avancer sur la voie de la r\u00e9alisation de quelque chose. En cas de refus, passez rapidement \u00e0 la m\u00e9thode suivante pour obtenir ce que vous voulez. Ne laissez pas le rejet vous arr\u00eater. Vous pourrez vous dire qu'au moins vous avez commenc\u00e9 par demander.<\/p>\n\n\n\n<h2 class=\"wp-block-heading\"><span class=\"ez-toc-section\" id=\"2_Be_prepared_to_handle_it\"><\/span>2. \u00catre pr\u00eat \u00e0 faire face \u00e0 la situation<span class=\"ez-toc-section-end\"><\/span><\/h2>\n\n\n\n<p>C'est un concept auquel la plupart des gens ne pensent pas et qui est \u00e9tonnamment nouveau pour beaucoup. Vous est-il d\u00e9j\u00e0 arriv\u00e9 de penser que vous vouliez quelque chose et de vous mettre au travail pour l'obtenir, avant de vous rendre compte que ce n'\u00e9tait peut-\u00eatre pas une si bonne chose \u00e0 vouloir au d\u00e9part ? <\/p>\n\n\n\n<p>Certaines personnes recherchent la c\u00e9l\u00e9brit\u00e9 pour se rendre compte plus tard qu'elles ont perdu leur vie priv\u00e9e et leur capacit\u00e9 \u00e0 se d\u00e9placer librement. D'autres recherchent une grande promotion pour d\u00e9couvrir que les exigences du nouvel emploi ne correspondent pas vraiment \u00e0 ce qu'ils envisageaient pour leur carri\u00e8re. L'une des premi\u00e8res choses \u00e0 laquelle nous devrions penser lorsque nous d\u00e9cidons de vouloir quelque chose est de nous demander si nous sommes pr\u00eats \u00e0 faire face \u00e0 tout ce que cela implique.<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p>Les bateaux sont souvent des biens mat\u00e9riels d\u00e9sir\u00e9s puis regrett\u00e9s. Beaucoup de gens aiment \"l'id\u00e9e\" d'avoir un bateau. Ils tombent amoureux de l'id\u00e9e d'\u00eatre sur l'eau avec leur famille et leurs amis, de pouvoir voir des endroits magnifiques et d'appr\u00e9cier le monde d'une nouvelle mani\u00e8re. <\/p>\n\n\n\n<p>Puis les co\u00fbts et les probl\u00e8mes de stockage et d'entretien apparaissent et ce n'est plus une si bonne id\u00e9e. Un peu de recherche et d'\u00e9tude sur ce qu'il faut pour poss\u00e9der et entretenir un bateau avant de l'acheter permettrait \u00e0 chacun de savoir dans quoi il s'engage. Peut-\u00eatre se rendraient-ils compte que c'est trop pour eux et qu'une location occasionnelle de bateau r\u00e9pondrait mieux \u00e0 leurs besoins. <\/p>\n\n\n\n<p>Peut-\u00eatre que les \"co\u00fbts\" ne feraient pas fuir quelqu'un, mais vous \u00eates maintenant pr\u00eat \u00e0 les affronter. En fin de compte, un peu de r\u00e9flexion et de pr\u00e9paration avant d'obtenir votre \"d\u00e9sir\" contribuera grandement \u00e0 votre bonheur une fois que vous l'aurez obtenu.<\/p>\n\n\n\n<h2 class=\"wp-block-heading\"><span class=\"ez-toc-section\" id=\"3_Be_persistent\"><\/span>3. Faire preuve de pers\u00e9v\u00e9rance<span class=\"ez-toc-section-end\"><\/span><\/h2>\n\n\n\n<p>L'une des choses les plus courantes dans cette vie est de d\u00e9cider que l'on veut quelque chose, de s'y atteler, puis d'abandonner l'id\u00e9e au premier signe de difficult\u00e9. On se dit alors que l'on n'en avait peut-\u00eatre pas vraiment envie apr\u00e8s tout. C'est peut-\u00eatre vrai, mais je soup\u00e7onne que, le plus souvent, ce n'est pas le cas. <\/p>\n\n\n\n<p>C'est un sentiment formidable que de travailler dur pour quelque chose et de traverser beaucoup de difficult\u00e9s pour l'obtenir, et lorsque nous y parvenons enfin, nous avons l'impression d'avoir conquis le monde ! Le fait de savoir, avant de commencer \u00e0 travailler, que vous serez confront\u00e9 \u00e0 des d\u00e9fis et \u00e0 des difficult\u00e9s vous aidera \u00e0 les surmonter plus facilement.<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p>Cela \u00e9tant dit, un \u00e9l\u00e9ment cl\u00e9 de la pers\u00e9v\u00e9rance est de savoir quand il faut abandonner. Certaines personnes n'abandonnent jamais. Cette attitude est souvent consid\u00e9r\u00e9e comme une vertu et une force. En r\u00e9alit\u00e9, c'est une faiblesse. La v\u00e9ritable force consiste \u00e0 d\u00e9velopper le discernement pour savoir quand il est temps d'arr\u00eater la pers\u00e9v\u00e9rance et de passer \u00e0 autre chose. <\/p>\n\n\n\n<p>\"Je n'ai jamais abandonn\u00e9 et j'ai persist\u00e9 jusqu'\u00e0 ce que j'obtienne ce que je voulais, donc c'\u00e9tait juste et bon. C'est la croyance g\u00e9n\u00e9ralement admise, mais elle est souvent erron\u00e9e. Ne pas obtenir ce que l'on veut est per\u00e7u comme un \u00e9chec. Une personne intelligente consid\u00e8re cet \"\u00e9chec\" comme une le\u00e7on. Une le\u00e7on qui permet de mieux comprendre ce que l'on veut vraiment et de changer de cap pour y parvenir. En bref, n'abandonnez pas, mais sachez quand abandonner. Cela semble contradictoire, mais \u00e7a ne l'est pas.<\/p>\n\n\n\n<h2 class=\"wp-block-heading\"><span class=\"ez-toc-section\" id=\"4_Set_goals_track_scoreboard\"><\/span>4. Fixer des objectifs, assurer le suivi, \u00e9tablir un tableau de bord<span class=\"ez-toc-section-end\"><\/span><\/h2>\n\n\n\n<p>Un objectif non \u00e9crit n'est qu'un souhait. Nous avons tous entendu cette phrase au moins un millier de fois. Ce n'est peut-\u00eatre pas 100% vrai, mais cela a beaucoup de poids. \u00c9crire quelque chose est une fa\u00e7on tr\u00e8s physique de s'engager. Psychologiquement, cela d\u00e9clenche un interrupteur dans votre t\u00eate et rend la chose plus r\u00e9elle. Vous avez maintenant des comptes \u00e0 rendre. Envers vous-m\u00eame. Vous devriez \u00e9galement partager vos objectifs avec d'autres personnes, comme un proche ou un coll\u00e8gue de confiance, et passer ainsi \u00e0 l'\u00e9tape suivante de la responsabilisation.<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p>Une partie de la d\u00e9finition des objectifs qui est souvent oubli\u00e9e et laiss\u00e9e de c\u00f4t\u00e9 est le suivi et le tableau de bord. Le suivi de nos progr\u00e8s vers l'obtention de ce que nous voulons est essentiel \u00e0 la r\u00e9ussite. <a href=\"https:\/\/www.franklincovey.com\/the-4-disciplines\/discipline-3-scoreboard.html\" target=\"_blank\" rel=\"noopener\">Tableau de bord<\/a> est une pratique qui consiste \u00e0 prendre toutes les mesures associ\u00e9es \u00e0 votre objectif et \u00e0 les afficher dans un endroit facile d'acc\u00e8s. <\/p>\n\n\n\n<p>D'o\u00f9 l'utilisation du mot \u2018 tableau d'affichage '. Il s'agit d'un rappel quasi constant de vos progr\u00e8s par rapport \u00e0 vos objectifs. Par exemple, si vous \u00e9tudiez pour obtenir un dipl\u00f4me universitaire, vous pouvez suivre le nombre d'heures de cr\u00e9dit qui vous reste pour obtenir votre dipl\u00f4me. Affichez ce nombre \u00e0 un endroit o\u00f9 vous le verrez souvent. Il vous rappellera le chemin qu'il vous reste \u00e0 parcourir et vous motivera \u00e0 poursuivre vos efforts. <\/p>\n\n\n\n<p>Certaines choses sont plus difficiles \u00e0 suivre que d'autres, mais beaucoup de choses n'ont pas de num\u00e9ro associ\u00e9. Par exemple, \u00e9conomiser de l'argent pour acheter un bateau. Si vous placez ce chiffre dans un endroit visible, il se peut que vous choisissiez de sauter un repas au restaurant et de manger des sandwichs au thon un soir afin d'atteindre votre objectif plus rapidement. Loin des yeux, loin du c\u0153ur s'applique ici.<\/p>\n\n\n\n<h2 class=\"wp-block-heading\"><span class=\"ez-toc-section\" id=\"5_Study_people_who_have_what_you_want\"><\/span>5. \u00c9tudier les personnes qui poss\u00e8dent ce que vous voulez<span class=\"ez-toc-section-end\"><\/span><\/h2>\n\n\n\n<p>Peu importe ce que vous voulez, il y a probablement quelqu'un d'autre qui l'a obtenu ou qui l'a r\u00e9alis\u00e9 avant vous. \u00c9tudiez ces personnes. Essayez d'apprendre comment ils ont atteint ce que vous essayez de r\u00e9aliser. Qu'ont-ils d\u00fb faire pour r\u00e9ussir \u00e0 obtenir ce qu'ils voulaient ? D\u00e9couvrez les d\u00e9fis et les difficult\u00e9s auxquels ils ont \u00e9t\u00e9 confront\u00e9s. <\/p>\n\n\n\n<p>Si vous le pouvez, parlez-leur et demandez-leur ce qu'ils feraient diff\u00e9remment. Cette simple \u00e9tape peut vous aider \u00e0 \u00e9viter de perdre beaucoup de temps, d'efforts et m\u00eame d'argent pour obtenir ce que vous voulez. Cette \u00e9tape est un \u00e9l\u00e9ment de l'\u00e9tape 1. Demander. De simples conversations avec les gens peuvent vous apprendre beaucoup de choses. Beaucoup de gens admireront votre int\u00e9r\u00eat et pourraient m\u00eame vous proposer de vous aider \u00e0 atteindre vos objectifs.<\/p>\n\n\n\n<h2 class=\"wp-block-heading\"><span class=\"ez-toc-section\" id=\"6_Help_others_get_what_they_want\"><\/span>6. Aider les autres \u00e0 obtenir ce qu'ils veulent<span class=\"ez-toc-section-end\"><\/span><\/h2>\n\n\n\n<p>Je crois au karma, au fait de r\u00e9colter ce que l'on a sem\u00e9, \u00e0 la r\u00e8gle d'or ou \u00e0 tout autre nom. Servir et aider les autres vous vaudra les b\u00e9n\u00e9dictions de l'univers. Ce que vous faites et la mani\u00e8re dont vous traitez les autres vous reviendront vraiment. C'est impossible \u00e0 quantifier, et vous ne saurez peut-\u00eatre jamais exactement quand l'univers paiera. <\/p>\n\n\n\n<p>Passer du temps \u00e0 aider les autres \u00e0 r\u00e9aliser ce qu'ils veulent aura deux effets. Premi\u00e8rement, vous vous forgerez un bon karma qui vous aidera dans vos efforts pour obtenir ce que vous voulez. Deuxi\u00e8mement, cela vous aidera \u00e0 apprendre. Vous apprendrez ce qui motive les autres et quelles sont les diff\u00e9rentes fa\u00e7ons d'obtenir des r\u00e9sultats dans ce monde.<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p>Mais il y a un hic. Servir les autres dans le seul but de s'aider soi-m\u00eame se retournera contre vous. Vous devez honn\u00eatement et sinc\u00e8rement chercher \u00e0 aider les autres \u00e0 surmonter leurs difficult\u00e9s et \u00e0 atteindre ce \u00e0 quoi ils aspirent. Il y a un avantage secondaire secret que je vais partager avec vous maintenant. Le service aux autres a pour effet de changer les choses que vous voulez. Vous pourriez finir par d\u00e9cider que le bateau n'est pas une si bonne id\u00e9e apr\u00e8s tout.<\/p>\n\n\n\n<h2 class=\"wp-block-heading\"><span class=\"ez-toc-section\" id=\"Summary\"><\/span>R\u00e9sum\u00e9<span class=\"ez-toc-section-end\"><\/span><\/h2>\n\n\n\n<p>Le point principal que j'essaie de faire passer avec ce sujet est que si vous cherchez \u00e0 obtenir ce que vous voulez de mani\u00e8re d\u00e9sordonn\u00e9e et non organis\u00e9e, ce sera un petit miracle si vous accomplissez quoi que ce soit. Le vieil adage \"Si vous ne savez pas o\u00f9 vous allez, tous les chemins vous y m\u00e8neront\" s'applique ici. <\/p>\n\n\n\n<p>Se fixer un objectif, demander ce que l'on veut, pers\u00e9v\u00e9rer dans cette voie, se pr\u00e9parer \u00e0 recevoir ce que l'on veut, \u00e9tudier ceux qui ont d\u00e9j\u00e0 ce que l'on veut et aider les autres \u00e0 obtenir ce qu'ils veulent, voil\u00e0 ce qui vous m\u00e8nera le plus loin possible vers l'obtention de ce que vous voulez. Cependant, il arrive que les choses ne soient pas cens\u00e9es se produire. <\/p>\n\n\n\n<p>Apr\u00e8s un effort concert\u00e9 en suivant ces \u00e9tapes, vous pouvez vous assurer que c'est vrai parce que vous aurez fait tout ce que vous pouviez pour que cela arrive. Je vous souhaite bonne chance dans vos efforts pour obtenir ce que vous voulez et j'esp\u00e8re sinc\u00e8rement que vous \"voulez\" et \"obtenez\" de bonnes choses.<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p>Dites-moi ce que vous en pensez et partagez vos propres astuces pour obtenir ce que vous voulez dans les commentaires.<\/p>","protected":false},"excerpt":{"rendered":"<p>This may come off sounding like an extremely selfish topic for a blog post. In a way, it is, just not the way you might be thinking. Sometimes \u201cgetting what you want\u201d can be seen as a negative self-centered idea. 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In a way, it is, just not the way you might be thinking. Sometimes \u201cgetting what you want\u201d can be seen as a negative self-centered idea. Ideally, a great person should be giving and kind and not concerned too much about themselves or what they want.<\/p>","content":[{"type":"text","data":"This may come off sounding like an extremely selfish topic for a blog post. In a way, it is, just not the way you might be thinking. Sometimes \u201cgetting what you want\u201d can be seen as a negative self-centered idea. Ideally, a great person should be giving and kind and not concerned too much about themselves or what they want."}],"data":[],"style":{"textAlign":"left","color":"","dropCap":false,"parent_style":{}}},{"type":"core\/paragraph","render":"<p>However, I think I am looking at this from a unique perspective. An example of \u201cgetting what you want\u201d could be providing a meal for a needy family or teaching someone how to handle a task for themselves that others had previously done for them. <\/p>","content":[{"type":"text","data":"However, I think I am looking at this from a unique perspective. An example of \u201cgetting what you want\u201d could be providing a meal for a needy family or teaching someone how to handle a task for themselves that others had previously done for them. "}],"data":[],"style":{"textAlign":"left","color":"","dropCap":false,"parent_style":{}}},{"type":"core\/paragraph","render":"<p>It doesn\u2019t have to be a narcissistic exercise. In a very real way \u201cgetting what you want\u201d is what we are about all day every day. Even if it is consumed with helping others and eschewing things for ourselves, it is what we want and have chosen to do.<\/p>","content":[{"type":"text","data":"It doesn\u2019t have to be a narcissistic exercise. In a very real way \u201cgetting what you want\u201d is what we are about all day every day. Even if it is consumed with helping others and eschewing things for ourselves, it is what we want and have chosen to do."}],"data":[],"style":{"textAlign":"left","color":"","dropCap":false,"parent_style":{}}},{"type":"core\/paragraph","render":"<p>I am conveniently leaving out the reality that many people are forced to do things they don\u2019t want to do every day. That is a very real circumstance for many in this world. I think the vast majority of us in this day and age are able to live out our days with relative freedom to do and choose what we want to do. <\/p>","content":[{"type":"text","data":"I am conveniently leaving out the reality that many people are forced to do things they don\u2019t want to do every day. That is a very real circumstance for many in this world. I think the vast majority of us in this day and age are able to live out our days with relative freedom to do and choose what we want to do. "}],"data":[],"style":{"textAlign":"left","color":"","dropCap":false,"parent_style":{}}},{"type":"core\/paragraph","render":"<p>We all want something. Our wants are as diverse as we are as a people. And I believe the following tips will help you in realizing your wants no matter what they are.<\/p>","content":[{"type":"text","data":"We all want something. Our wants are as diverse as we are as a people. And I believe the following tips will help you in realizing your wants no matter what they are."}],"data":[],"style":{"textAlign":"left","color":"","dropCap":false,"parent_style":{}}},{"type":"core\/heading","render":"<h2 class=\"wp-block-heading\">1. Ask<\/h2>","content":"1. Demander","data":[],"style":{"align":"left","parent_style":{},"header":"h2","fontSize":"27px"}},{"type":"core\/paragraph","render":"<p>This is also known as the first rule of negotiation. If you don\u2019t ask for it, you won\u2019t get it. It is almost impossible for something to appear out of thin air just because the thought crossed your mind. You will be amazed at how much you can accomplish if you just ask. So many of us are afraid to ask for fear of being rejected or out of some cultural idea that it isn\u2019t appropriate to do so. If you can get over that fear then the sky is the limit.<\/p>","content":[{"type":"text","data":"This is also known as the first rule of negotiation. If you don\u2019t ask for it, you won\u2019t get it. It is almost impossible for something to appear out of thin air just because the thought crossed your mind. You will be amazed at how much you can accomplish if you just ask. So many of us are afraid to ask for fear of being rejected or out of some cultural idea that it isn\u2019t appropriate to do so. If you can get over that fear then the sky is the limit."}],"data":[],"style":{"textAlign":"left","color":"","dropCap":false,"parent_style":{}}},{"type":"core\/paragraph","render":"<p>I was taught this principle by a man I used to work for, Author Richard Paul Evans. He wrote a book called, <a href=\"http:\/\/www.richardpaulevans.com\/portfolio-item\/the-5-lessons-a-millionaire-taught-me\/\" target=\"_blank\" rel=\"noopener\">The 5 Lessons a Millionaire Taught Me About Life and Wealth.<\/a>\u00a0 One of the things said millionaire taught me was to ask, \u201cIs that the best you can do for me?\u201d when participating in just about any transaction. <\/p>","content":[{"type":"text","data":"I was taught this principle by a man I used to work for, Author Richard Paul Evans. He wrote a book called, <a href=\"http:\/\/www.richardpaulevans.com\/portfolio-item\/the-5-lessons-a-millionaire-taught-me\/\" target=\"_blank\" rel=\"noopener\">The 5 Lessons a Millionaire Taught Me About Life and Wealth.<\/a>\u00a0 One of the things said millionaire taught me was to ask, \u201cIs that the best you can do for me?\u201d when participating in just about any transaction. "}],"data":[],"style":{"textAlign":"left","color":"","dropCap":false,"parent_style":{}}},{"type":"core\/paragraph","render":"<p>It is amazing what people will do for you when you ask this simple question. It doesn\u2019t have to be confrontational like you are driving a hard bargain. It\u2019s just a simple question. If they say \u201cno,\u201d then you smile, say thanks, and move on.<\/p>","content":[{"type":"text","data":"It is amazing what people will do for you when you ask this simple question. It doesn\u2019t have to be confrontational like you are driving a hard bargain. It\u2019s just a simple question. If they say \u201cno,\u201d then you smile, say thanks, and move on."}],"data":[],"style":{"textAlign":"left","color":"","dropCap":false,"parent_style":{}}},{"type":"core\/paragraph","render":"<p>This isn't to say that you will get everything you want just by asking for it. It is more of a tool you can use to get further down the path to achieving something. If rejected, quickly move on to the next method of going after what you want. Don\u2019t let the rejection stop you. You will be able to just file away the thought that at least you asked first.<\/p>","content":[{"type":"text","data":"This isn't to say that you will get everything you want just by asking for it. It is more of a tool you can use to get further down the path to achieving something. If rejected, quickly move on to the next method of going after what you want. Don\u2019t let the rejection stop you. You will be able to just file away the thought that at least you asked first."}],"data":[],"style":{"textAlign":"left","color":"","dropCap":false,"parent_style":{}}},{"type":"core\/heading","render":"<h2 class=\"wp-block-heading\">2. Be prepared to handle it<\/h2>","content":"2. \u00catre pr\u00eat \u00e0 faire face \u00e0 la situation","data":[],"style":{"align":"left","parent_style":{},"header":"h2","fontSize":"27px"}},{"type":"core\/paragraph","render":"<p>This is one that most people don\u2019t think of and is a surprisingly new concept to many. Have you ever had an experience where you thought you wanted something and then went to work getting it only to realize maybe it wasn\u2019t such a great thing to want in the first place? <\/p>","content":[{"type":"text","data":"This is one that most people don\u2019t think of and is a surprisingly new concept to many. Have you ever had an experience where you thought you wanted something and then went to work getting it only to realize maybe it wasn\u2019t such a great thing to want in the first place? "}],"data":[],"style":{"textAlign":"left","color":"","dropCap":false,"parent_style":{}}},{"type":"core\/paragraph","render":"<p>Some people go after fame only to realize later that they have lost their privacy and their ability to move about freely. Or, seeking a big promotion only to find out that the requirements of the new job don\u2019t really jive with what they saw for their career. One of the first things we should think about when deciding we want something is to ask ourselves if we are ready to deal with whatever comes with that thing.<\/p>","content":[{"type":"text","data":"Some people go after fame only to realize later that they have lost their privacy and their ability to move about freely. Or, seeking a big promotion only to find out that the requirements of the new job don\u2019t really jive with what they saw for their career. One of the first things we should think about when deciding we want something is to ask ourselves if we are ready to deal with whatever comes with that thing."}],"data":[],"style":{"textAlign":"left","color":"","dropCap":false,"parent_style":{}}},{"type":"core\/paragraph","render":"<p>A common material thing wanted and then regretted are boats. Many people love the \u2018idea\u2019 of having a boat. They fall in love with the idea of being out on the water with family and friends and being able to see beautiful places and enjoy the world in a new way. <\/p>","content":[{"type":"text","data":"A common material thing wanted and then regretted are boats. Many people love the \u2018idea\u2019 of having a boat. They fall in love with the idea of being out on the water with family and friends and being able to see beautiful places and enjoy the world in a new way. "}],"data":[],"style":{"textAlign":"left","color":"","dropCap":false,"parent_style":{}}},{"type":"core\/paragraph","render":"<p>Then the costs and the problems of storage and maintenance hit and it\u2019s not such a great idea anymore. A little research and study into what it takes to own and maintain a boat before purchasing would prepare one to know what they are getting into. Maybe they would realize it would be too much for them and that an occasional boat rental would satisfy their wants better. <\/p>","content":[{"type":"text","data":"Then the costs and the problems of storage and maintenance hit and it\u2019s not such a great idea anymore. A little research and study into what it takes to own and maintain a boat before purchasing would prepare one to know what they are getting into. Maybe they would realize it would be too much for them and that an occasional boat rental would satisfy their wants better. "}],"data":[],"style":{"textAlign":"left","color":"","dropCap":false,"parent_style":{}}},{"type":"core\/paragraph","render":"<p>Maybe the \u2018costs\u2019 wouldn\u2019t scare one away but now you are prepared when they do come up. The bottom line is that a little thinking and preparation before you actually get your \u2018want\u2019 will go a long way towards your happiness after you get it.<\/p>","content":[{"type":"text","data":"Maybe the \u2018costs\u2019 wouldn\u2019t scare one away but now you are prepared when they do come up. The bottom line is that a little thinking and preparation before you actually get your \u2018want\u2019 will go a long way towards your happiness after you get it."}],"data":[],"style":{"textAlign":"left","color":"","dropCap":false,"parent_style":{}}},{"type":"core\/heading","render":"<h2 class=\"wp-block-heading\">3. Be persistent<\/h2>","content":"3. Faire preuve de pers\u00e9v\u00e9rance","data":[],"style":{"align":"left","parent_style":{},"header":"h2","fontSize":"27px"}},{"type":"core\/paragraph","render":"<p>One of the most common things in this life is deciding you want something, going after it, and then giving up on the idea at the first sign of difficulty. It gets explained away as \u201cwell, maybe I didn\u2019t really want that after all.\u201d That may actually be true but I suspect more often than not it\u2019s not the whole story. <\/p>","content":[{"type":"text","data":"One of the most common things in this life is deciding you want something, going after it, and then giving up on the idea at the first sign of difficulty. It gets explained away as \u201cwell, maybe I didn\u2019t really want that after all.\u201d That may actually be true but I suspect more often than not it\u2019s not the whole story. "}],"data":[],"style":{"textAlign":"left","color":"","dropCap":false,"parent_style":{}}},{"type":"core\/paragraph","render":"<p>How great a feeling it is when we work hard for something and go through a lot of pain to get it and then when we finally achieve it we feel like we\u2019ve conquered the world! Knowing before you start working toward something that you will be faced with challenges and difficulties will help you get through them easier.<\/p>","content":[{"type":"text","data":"How great a feeling it is when we work hard for something and go through a lot of pain to get it and then when we finally achieve it we feel like we\u2019ve conquered the world! Knowing before you start working toward something that you will be faced with challenges and difficulties will help you get through them easier."}],"data":[],"style":{"textAlign":"left","color":"","dropCap":false,"parent_style":{}}},{"type":"core\/paragraph","render":"<p>That being said, a key part of being persistent is knowing when to actually quit. Some people will just never give up. This is often looked at as a virtue and a strength. It is actually a weakness. The real strength is developing the skill of discernment to know when it\u2019s time to turn the persistence off and move on. <\/p>","content":[{"type":"text","data":"That being said, a key part of being persistent is knowing when to actually quit. Some people will just never give up. This is often looked at as a virtue and a strength. It is actually a weakness. The real strength is developing the skill of discernment to know when it\u2019s time to turn the persistence off and move on. "}],"data":[],"style":{"textAlign":"left","color":"","dropCap":false,"parent_style":{}}},{"type":"core\/paragraph","render":"<p>\u201cI never gave up and persisted till I got what I wanted, therefore, it was right and good.\u201d That is the generally accepted belief but it is oftentimes wrong. Not getting what you want is seen as a failure. A smart person sees that \u2018failure\u2019 as a lesson. A lesson in learning better what they really want and changing course to achieve it. In short, don\u2019t give up but know when to give up. Sounds contradictory but it isn\u2019t.<\/p>","content":[{"type":"text","data":"\u201cI never gave up and persisted till I got what I wanted, therefore, it was right and good.\u201d That is the generally accepted belief but it is oftentimes wrong. Not getting what you want is seen as a failure. A smart person sees that \u2018failure\u2019 as a lesson. A lesson in learning better what they really want and changing course to achieve it. In short, don\u2019t give up but know when to give up. Sounds contradictory but it isn\u2019t."}],"data":[],"style":{"textAlign":"left","color":"","dropCap":false,"parent_style":{}}},{"type":"core\/heading","render":"<h2 class=\"wp-block-heading\">4. Set goals, track, scoreboard<\/h2>","content":"4. Fixer des objectifs, assurer le suivi, \u00e9tablir un tableau de bord","data":[],"style":{"align":"left","parent_style":{},"header":"h2","fontSize":"27px"}},{"type":"core\/paragraph","render":"<p>A goal not written down is just a wish. We have all heard that at least a thousand times. It may not be 100% true but it carries a lot of weight. Writing something down is a very physical way to commit to something. Psychologically it flips a switch in your head and makes it more real. Now you have some accountability. To yourself. You should also share your goals with others such as a close loved one or a trusted colleague and take that accountability to the next level.<\/p>","content":[{"type":"text","data":"A goal not written down is just a wish. We have all heard that at least a thousand times. It may not be 100% true but it carries a lot of weight. Writing something down is a very physical way to commit to something. Psychologically it flips a switch in your head and makes it more real. Now you have some accountability. To yourself. You should also share your goals with others such as a close loved one or a trusted colleague and take that accountability to the next level."}],"data":[],"style":{"textAlign":"left","color":"","dropCap":false,"parent_style":{}}},{"type":"core\/paragraph","render":"<p>A part of setting goals that often gets forgotten and left out is tracking and score boarding. Tracking our progress toward getting something we want is crucial for success. <a href=\"https:\/\/www.franklincovey.com\/the-4-disciplines\/discipline-3-scoreboard.html\" target=\"_blank\" rel=\"noopener\">Scoreboarding<\/a> is a practice where you take any metrics associated with your goal and display them somewhere easy to see. <\/p>","content":[{"type":"text","data":"A part of setting goals that often gets forgotten and left out is tracking and score boarding. Tracking our progress toward getting something we want is crucial for success. <a href=\"https:\/\/www.franklincovey.com\/the-4-disciplines\/discipline-3-scoreboard.html\" target=\"_blank\" rel=\"noopener\">Scoreboarding<\/a> is a practice where you take any metrics associated with your goal and display them somewhere easy to see. "}],"data":[],"style":{"textAlign":"left","color":"","dropCap":false,"parent_style":{}}},{"type":"core\/paragraph","render":"<p>Hence the use of the word 'scoreboard.' It is a near constant reminder of how you are doing against your goals. For example, if you were working towards a college degree you could track your remaining credit hours needed for graduation. Display the number where you will see it often and it will remind you how much further you have to go and will motivate you to keep up your efforts. <\/p>","content":[{"type":"text","data":"Hence the use of the word 'scoreboard.' It is a near constant reminder of how you are doing against your goals. For example, if you were working towards a college degree you could track your remaining credit hours needed for graduation. Display the number where you will see it often and it will remind you how much further you have to go and will motivate you to keep up your efforts. "}],"data":[],"style":{"textAlign":"left","color":"","dropCap":false,"parent_style":{}}},{"type":"core\/paragraph","render":"<p>Some things are harder to track than others but many things you won't have some kind of number associated with them. Saving money for a boat for example. Put that number somewhere visible and you may choose to skip an \u2018eat-out\u2019 and have tuna sandwiches one night so that you can reach your boat goal sooner. Out of sight out of mind definitely applies here.<\/p>","content":[{"type":"text","data":"Some things are harder to track than others but many things you won't have some kind of number associated with them. Saving money for a boat for example. Put that number somewhere visible and you may choose to skip an \u2018eat-out\u2019 and have tuna sandwiches one night so that you can reach your boat goal sooner. Out of sight out of mind definitely applies here."}],"data":[],"style":{"textAlign":"left","color":"","dropCap":false,"parent_style":{}}},{"type":"core\/heading","render":"<h2 class=\"wp-block-heading\">5. Study people who have what you want<\/h2>","content":"5. \u00c9tudier les personnes qui poss\u00e8dent ce que vous voulez","data":[],"style":{"align":"left","parent_style":{},"header":"h2","fontSize":"27px"}},{"type":"core\/paragraph","render":"<p>No matter what it is you want there is likely someone else out there that has it or has achieved it before you. Study those people. Try to learn how they achieved what you are trying to achieve. What did they have to do to be successful in getting what they wanted? Find out the challenges and difficulties they faced. <\/p>","content":[{"type":"text","data":"No matter what it is you want there is likely someone else out there that has it or has achieved it before you. Study those people. Try to learn how they achieved what you are trying to achieve. What did they have to do to be successful in getting what they wanted? Find out the challenges and difficulties they faced. "}],"data":[],"style":{"textAlign":"left","color":"","dropCap":false,"parent_style":{}}},{"type":"core\/paragraph","render":"<p>If you can, talk to them and ask them what they would do differently. This simple step can help you avoid wasting a lot of time, effort, and even money in getting what you want. This step has an element of step 1. Ask. Simple conversations with people can teach you a lot. A lot of people will admire your interest and might even offer to help you to achieve your goals.<\/p>","content":[{"type":"text","data":"If you can, talk to them and ask them what they would do differently. This simple step can help you avoid wasting a lot of time, effort, and even money in getting what you want. This step has an element of step 1. Ask. Simple conversations with people can teach you a lot. A lot of people will admire your interest and might even offer to help you to achieve your goals."}],"data":[],"style":{"textAlign":"left","color":"","dropCap":false,"parent_style":{}}},{"type":"core\/heading","render":"<h2 class=\"wp-block-heading\">6. Help others get what they want<\/h2>","content":"6. Aider les autres \u00e0 obtenir ce qu'ils veulent","data":[],"style":{"align":"left","parent_style":{},"header":"h2","fontSize":"27px"}},{"type":"core\/paragraph","render":"<p>I believe in Karma, reaping what you sow, the Golden Rule or whatever you choose to call it. Serving and helping others will earn you blessings from the universe. What you do and how you treat others really will come back to you. It\u2019s impossible to quantify, and you may never know exactly when the universe pays up. <\/p>","content":[{"type":"text","data":"I believe in Karma, reaping what you sow, the Golden Rule or whatever you choose to call it. Serving and helping others will earn you blessings from the universe. What you do and how you treat others really will come back to you. It\u2019s impossible to quantify, and you may never know exactly when the universe pays up. "}],"data":[],"style":{"textAlign":"left","color":"","dropCap":false,"parent_style":{}}},{"type":"core\/paragraph","render":"<p>Spending time helping others to achieve what they want will have two effects. First, you will build up good Karma that can help you in your efforts to achieve what you want. And second, it will help you learn. You will learn what motivates others and what different ways there are to get things done in this world.<\/p>","content":[{"type":"text","data":"Spending time helping others to achieve what they want will have two effects. First, you will build up good Karma that can help you in your efforts to achieve what you want. And second, it will help you learn. You will learn what motivates others and what different ways there are to get things done in this world."}],"data":[],"style":{"textAlign":"left","color":"","dropCap":false,"parent_style":{}}},{"type":"core\/paragraph","render":"<p>There is a catch however. Serving others with the sole purpose of helping yourself will backfire. You must honestly and with a genuine heart seek to help others overcome their challenges and achieve what they are striving for. There is a secret side benefit I will share with you now. Service to others has an effect of changing the things you want. You might end up deciding that boat isn\u2019t such a great idea after all.<\/p>","content":[{"type":"text","data":"There is a catch however. Serving others with the sole purpose of helping yourself will backfire. You must honestly and with a genuine heart seek to help others overcome their challenges and achieve what they are striving for. There is a secret side benefit I will share with you now. Service to others has an effect of changing the things you want. You might end up deciding that boat isn\u2019t such a great idea after all."}],"data":[],"style":{"textAlign":"left","color":"","dropCap":false,"parent_style":{}}},{"type":"core\/heading","render":"<h2 class=\"wp-block-heading\">Summary<\/h2>","content":"R\u00e9sum\u00e9","data":[],"style":{"align":"left","parent_style":{},"header":"h2","fontSize":"27px"}},{"type":"core\/paragraph","render":"<p>The main point I am trying to get across with this topic is that if you go at getting what you want in a haphazard, unorganized way then it will be a minor miracle if you actually accomplish anything. The old adage, \u201cIf you don\u2019t know where you are headed, every road will get you there\u201d applies here. <\/p>","content":[{"type":"text","data":"The main point I am trying to get across with this topic is that if you go at getting what you want in a haphazard, unorganized way then it will be a minor miracle if you actually accomplish anything. The old adage, \u201cIf you don\u2019t know where you are headed, every road will get you there\u201d applies here. "}],"data":[],"style":{"textAlign":"left","color":"","dropCap":false,"parent_style":{}}},{"type":"core\/paragraph","render":"<p>Setting a goal for a want, asking for that want, persisting towards the want, preparing yourself to receive that want, studying others who already have what you want, and helping others get what they want will get you most of the way to getting what you want. However, sometimes things just aren\u2019t meant to be. <\/p>","content":[{"type":"text","data":"Setting a goal for a want, asking for that want, persisting towards the want, preparing yourself to receive that want, studying others who already have what you want, and helping others get what they want will get you most of the way to getting what you want. However, sometimes things just aren\u2019t meant to be. "}],"data":[],"style":{"textAlign":"left","color":"","dropCap":false,"parent_style":{}}},{"type":"core\/paragraph","render":"<p>After a concerted effort following these steps you can assure yourself that is true because you will have done everything you can to make it happen. Good luck in your efforts to get what you want and I sincerely hope you \u2018want\u2019 and \u2018get\u2019 good things.<\/p>","content":[{"type":"text","data":"After a concerted effort following these steps you can assure yourself that is true because you will have done everything you can to make it happen. Good luck in your efforts to get what you want and I sincerely hope you \u2018want\u2019 and \u2018get\u2019 good things."}],"data":[],"style":{"textAlign":"left","color":"","dropCap":false,"parent_style":{}}},{"type":"core\/paragraph","render":"<p>Let me know what you think and share your own tips for getting what you want in the comments.<\/p>","content":[{"type":"text","data":"Let me know what you think and share your own tips for getting what you want in the comments."}],"data":[],"style":{"textAlign":"left","color":"","dropCap":false,"parent_style":{}}}],"app_access":{"can_access":true,"restrict_message":null},"_links":{"self":[{"href":"https:\/\/memberpress.com\/fr\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/posts\/7380","targetHints":{"allow":["GET"]}}],"collection":[{"href":"https:\/\/memberpress.com\/fr\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/posts"}],"about":[{"href":"https:\/\/memberpress.com\/fr\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/types\/post"}],"author":[{"embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/memberpress.com\/fr\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/users\/2474"}],"replies":[{"embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/memberpress.com\/fr\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/comments?post=7380"}],"version-history":[{"count":0,"href":"https:\/\/memberpress.com\/fr\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/posts\/7380\/revisions"}],"wp:featuredmedia":[{"embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/memberpress.com\/fr\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/media\/15183"}],"wp:attachment":[{"href":"https:\/\/memberpress.com\/fr\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/media?parent=7380"}],"wp:term":[{"taxonomy":"category","embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/memberpress.com\/fr\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/categories?post=7380"},{"taxonomy":"post_tag","embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/memberpress.com\/fr\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/tags?post=7380"}],"curies":[{"name":"wp","href":"https:\/\/api.w.org\/{rel}","templated":true}]}}